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Dear Dish-It, I Told Him to Shut Up


Dear Dish-It, is here to whisper "ttyl after I've thought about this some more".


Dear Dish-It,

I really like this boy a lot that sits at the same table I do during lunch. He was acting all hyper one day and he got so annoying that I told him to shut up. He has not sat at our table ever since. I'm crushin' on him major and want to know how to patch things up. Please help! I'll wait for your answer and in the mean time think about what he could be doing right now, if his hair is in spikes or not, what kind of shirt he's wearing, what cologne he has used... I can't get him out of my head!
Thinking_of_Him


Dear Thinking_of_Him,

Instead of sitting around and fantasizing about this crush, you need to just get over there and apologize to him. You didn't really mean to tell him to shut up, right? So let him know that. Tell him you think he's a cool guy and you were just annoyed and didn't think before you spoke. Most likely he was just embarrassed and a bit angry that you told him to shut up, and he'll appreciate your apology. The ball is in your court right now - so let him know how you feel. And, the next time your crush does something that annoys you, just take a step back before saying anything. If you're really crushing, then you should be able to overlook some of his more obnoxious behavior sometimes. Good luck!


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    bffeaea
    bffeaea posted in Friends:
    I don't know you and I'm not exactly sure how you act, but being friendly is definitely the way to go. Don't change yourself for ANYBODY. Especially someone who you don't need to impress. Speaking of impressing, don't try, do. If you are telling a story and that happens to impress them than that's great! But don't go out of your way to try to make yourself look awesome because I'm sure you already are. Be yourself. But the most important thug now you can do is not try to make a million friends. Because personally I would rather have one AWESOME friend than a million ok friends. I hope this helped. :)
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    HoneyHamstern
    HoneyHamstern posted in Friends:
    Be yourself and most important of all, be kind. You will get great friends by doing so. Being popular doesn't always mean being nice; sometimes people tend to be rude and bossy to be "popular" and that isn't good. But if you participate or even start a group at school, at the library or somewhere important in the community (community service like the Rotary Club is a good way to start for kids and teens) can be a great way to meet friends and share your happiness.
    reply about 7 hours
    esthery27
    "f3rr3tgal" wrote:dear dish-it,        I absolutely love my family but... my dad has these headaches  where if they are really bad i can not say anything right he will get really mad. i don't know what to do i really hate being yelled at by my  dad and i love him soo much !!!! what do i do?  [s:sm3/1jvp]                                                       thanks,                                                            f3rr3tgal Tell him that you love him and you understand he's suffering but you really don't like it when he yells at you. You can write a note or a card to him. I'm sure he'll understand. And of course if needed see a doctor so that he'll know what to do to deal with those headaches.
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    esthery27
    esthery27 posted in Friends:
    You won't want to be, it's exhausting. Just be happy the way you are and don't care about what others think or say about you.
    reply about 8 hours
    GiddyUpGecko
    GiddyUpGecko posted in Friends:
    What if you just aren't populr, and you want to be???  :(
    reply about 21 hours