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Dear Dish-It, My Friend Really Annoys Me

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Dear Dish-It,

I have a problem - I have this friend named Alice and I wanna be her friend but she annoys me sooo much! She lies and talks crap about other people, and when I tell her something really important, she doesn't believe me! What should I do?!

Dear Stephanie,

Your friend Alice says mean things about other people, doesn't believe anything you tell her and annoys the heck out of you - so why do you want to be her friend so badly? There were obviously some good things about her that made you want to be her friend in the first place, though, so why don't you let her know what's been bothering you about her? It might be awkward, but if she is a real friend, you guys will be able to work through your issues. If Alice has more annoying traits than good ones or if she doesn't make an effort to be a better friend, maybe you should be looking for some new friends to hang with. Good Luck!

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    Friends grow apart as we grow up and change at different rates. It's fine to stop being friends, but it doesn't have to be in a mean way. The best thing to do is talk to her (nicely). You don't have to tell her she's being childish or you feel as if you've matured more. That would be terrible. Talk about things you guys like to do in common or make plans to try new things together. Or don't mention it at all, but don't just begin ignoring her. Eventually the friendship will fade the less time you spend together. 
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    Desiixx posted in Friends:
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