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Dear Dish-It, She Dissed My Outfit


Dear Dish-It, is here to whisper "ttyl after I've thought about this some more".


Dear Dish-It,

She probably thinks she's better than me. When I wore this totally cute outfit, my best friend said (and I quote!) "Say goodbye to your dignity!"
grovie Girl


Dear grovie Girl,

One day, I was sporting this really cool outfit at school. It wasn't your average jean skirt and polo shirt combo - it was original and stylin' and I felt on top of my fashion game. So, this girl in my class decides to announce to the whole school how bad I look. It was a little embarrassing, but mostly it just hurt, cuz I thought we were friends. Well, would you believe that later that year the same girl apologized for being such a jerk and told me how glad she was that I was her friend? It's true. Sometimes girls can be really nasty - it's usually not because they dislike you, but more likely because they are a bit jealous. And for some reason, the only way they can express that jealousy is by being cruel. If I were you, I would keep doing what you're doing and just let your friends nasty comments roll off your back. If she continues to be so mean, you might want to re-evaluate your friendship with her. Good Luck!


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    Lynx_The_Lynx
    Lynx_The_Lynx posted in Friends:
    Okay, since I'm a girl and have helped many of my guy friends with this (even though I think they r too young for this but meh whatever), I can give you some advice.  1) Don't be mean or nice. You have to be yourself. Don't be nasty to her to get her to like you (it won't work), nor should you be Mr Nice Guy. Don't be there to carry her bag for her just yet.  2) If you want her attention, be creative. Writing a song is a good idea, but don't dedicate it to her. Just pretend you're aiming it at the general female population of your class. You can tell her that it's for her later, when she's into you. 3) Find out what she likes. Does she play instruments? Does she do sports? Does she fangirl over stuff? Does she play video games? Find out and DISCREETLY get her to know that you like it too, if you do of course. This is what worked for one of my friends: 1) Stay low until the perfect moment. If she falls over, come over and help her up, smile at her and blow her away with your charms, and then proceed to say hi and ask for her name as if you don't know her. It is creepy when a random guy knows your name and says it to you.... it just is idk. Walk away without looking back. This will make her curious for this stranger who helped her up. Do this for whatever situation. BUT JUST ONCE. DO NOT REPEAT. 2) If this happens again (she falls over etc), be sure to be really obvious that you're not going to help her up. Walk by without sparing a single glance. She will be reminded of you and wonder why didn't you help her. This is good - you want her to think of you. 3) Do something sweet for her. For example, if she likes a particular drink or cheap snack, buy it for her and walk up to her. Give it to her, but say something like "Hey _________! Here you go. I accidentally bought the wrong flavour and didn't want to throw it away. Don't worry - I didn't open it. Do you want it?" She should say yes, and ask for your name to say thank you. That's when you tell her. 4) Start to wave to her in the hallways and say hi sometimes. Don't do this too much though. Sometimes, if she waves first, ignore her. This should make her want your attention more. 5) Do something sweet again (like the song), but aim it not directly towards her (like I already said before - aim it towards girls in general). If you want some more, tell me! I hope this helped, but it might not - depends on what kind of girl she is.
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    Erza_Scarlet56
    Erza_Scarlet56 posted in Friends:
    on the top Genesiz and EgyptianDreamQueen :**** [s:p/zqh]
    reply about 4 hours
    Narwhals3
    Narwhals3 posted in Style:
    Lipstick I dont know how to apply eyeshadow without it looking like i fell in a pool of it .-. XD 
    reply about 8 hours
    ritap121
    ritap121 posted in Friends:
    definetly morgan tozer shes the best!! luv u gurl! xoxox
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    Maleficnet192
    Maleficnet192 posted in Style:
    whenever their parents feel like they are mature enough to wear it
    reply about 13 hours

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