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Dear Dish-It, Are We Going Out?

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Dear Dish-It,

I gave this guy a Valentine's card and he gave me one. He's really sweet and I know him from my work. Does this mean we're going out? Please help, I'm seeing him tomorrow.
xXx


Dear xXx,

Exchanging Valentine's Day cards is definitely a good step to starting a new relationship, but just because your crush has let you know that he's crushin' back, doesn't mean you guys are suddenly a couple. Valentine's Day can be very romantic, so it's understandable that you might want to put a label on this relationship, but the best advice I have is to just take things slow. There's no need to jump head on into something serious. Instead, take things one step at a time. Ask him out to a movie or to grab some ice cream with you. Hanging out together in a casual setting will help you guys figure out whether or not you're suited to officially become boyfriend and girlfriend and you'll have a lot more fun if you're not putting so much pressure on yourself. Have a very happy Valentine's Day!


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    crazycookieXD

    crazycookieXD wrote:

    ik r? its so cheesy
    commented: Thu Jul 28, 2011

    Cookie1013

    Cookie1013 wrote:

    i hate valentines day worst holiday who invented valentines day
    commented: Fri Jul 22, 2011

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    ive never had an valentices day card from anyone even if i go out with someoneon the da...
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