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Dear Dish It, Should I Ask Her to be My Valentine?


Dear Dish-It is here to help with a Valentine's Day problem. Valentine's Day? A problem? Yeah! It should be a day off! (LOL) JK, but it's the craziest day of the year for sure! And I've got lots to say about it, cuz I'm a female, but (LOL) enuffa that. I gotta help this guy.


Dear Dish-It

There is this girl in school and we have known each other since grade school. I have been crushing on her for over a year now. Valentine's Day is coming up and our school is selling candy grams. She has been acting different around me, like she's been flirtier. So I find out she is buying me one and she says it will be from her but it will say secret admirer on it. Lately I have been thinking of how she will react when she finds out I have this mammoth crush on her. Everyone has been talking about it. I want to ask her out but I am afraid that she will say no. Should I tell her?
kbl277


Dear kbl277

Girls can be tricky to figure out sometimes (NOOOO!? Okay, almost all the time), but I think you've lucked out with this one! She's makin' things very easy for you by lettin' you know how she feels with HER candy gram to YOU. She may not have put her name on it, but she did somethin' better by tellin' you first hand that she was sendin' it. And, believe me, girls don't shell out on presents for boys they aren't interested in.


So, don't stress so much about breakin' the news to her about your mammoth crush. She's crushin' on you too! Well. Enuffa that! Have a happy Valentine's Day!


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    HannahG
    HannahG posted in Family Issues:
    "GlimmeringSky16" wrote:Shouldn't this be titled like, "Suicide Isn't the Answer" or something.I actually didn't make this post. The person who created the post just never posted anything, they only titled it. And besides, even if it was me who created it, titling it "Suicide isn't the answer" wouldn't gather as much of an audience. Say someone here actually WAS thinking of suicide. They'd see this post and think about looking at it to see how many others were too. They'd come here and they might actually change their mind because they'd see my *encouraging* post that was totally unexpected. It's called a head fake. But if they saw "Suicide isn't the answer" as a title, they'd probably not look at it because they'd heard the same thing over and over again. I'm not suicidal, but if I were I wouldn't probably bother looking at a post like that. 
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    Serena007
    I beg you please don't do it...you have your rest of your life waiting for you...PLEASE DON'T... your frnds still like u...u frnds love u :) :) :)
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