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Dear Dish It, Should I Ask Her to be My Valentine?


Dear Dish-It is here to help with a Valentine's Day problem. Valentine's Day? A problem? Yeah! It should be a day off! (LOL) JK, but it's the craziest day of the year for sure! And I've got lots to say about it, cuz I'm a female, but (LOL) enuffa that. I gotta help this guy.


Dear Dish-It

There is this girl in school and we have known each other since grade school. I have been crushing on her for over a year now. Valentine's Day is coming up and our school is selling candy grams. She has been acting different around me, like she's been flirtier. So I find out she is buying me one and she says it will be from her but it will say secret admirer on it. Lately I have been thinking of how she will react when she finds out I have this mammoth crush on her. Everyone has been talking about it. I want to ask her out but I am afraid that she will say no. Should I tell her?
kbl277


Dear kbl277

Girls can be tricky to figure out sometimes (NOOOO!? Okay, almost all the time), but I think you've lucked out with this one! She's makin' things very easy for you by lettin' you know how she feels with HER candy gram to YOU. She may not have put her name on it, but she did somethin' better by tellin' you first hand that she was sendin' it. And, believe me, girls don't shell out on presents for boys they aren't interested in.


So, don't stress so much about breakin' the news to her about your mammoth crush. She's crushin' on you too! Well. Enuffa that! Have a happy Valentine's Day!


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