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Dear Dish It, Should I Ask Her to be My Valentine?


Dear Dish-It is here to help with a Valentine's Day problem. Valentine's Day? A problem? Yeah! It should be a day off! (LOL) JK, but it's the craziest day of the year for sure! And I've got lots to say about it, cuz I'm a female, but (LOL) enuffa that. I gotta help this guy.


Dear Dish-It

There is this girl in school and we have known each other since grade school. I have been crushing on her for over a year now. Valentine's Day is coming up and our school is selling candy grams. She has been acting different around me, like she's been flirtier. So I find out she is buying me one and she says it will be from her but it will say secret admirer on it. Lately I have been thinking of how she will react when she finds out I have this mammoth crush on her. Everyone has been talking about it. I want to ask her out but I am afraid that she will say no. Should I tell her?
kbl277


Dear kbl277

Girls can be tricky to figure out sometimes (NOOOO!? Okay, almost all the time), but I think you've lucked out with this one! She's makin' things very easy for you by lettin' you know how she feels with HER candy gram to YOU. She may not have put her name on it, but she did somethin' better by tellin' you first hand that she was sendin' it. And, believe me, girls don't shell out on presents for boys they aren't interested in.


So, don't stress so much about breakin' the news to her about your mammoth crush. She's crushin' on you too! Well. Enuffa that! Have a happy Valentine's Day!


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    -Gwen9-- posted in Friends:
    "jordand08" wrote:Thank you.You're welcome. :)
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    donteatcarrots
    talk to the person you're closest too. yes, you said you don't get close with people, but there's probably one person who you speak to more often than others- talk to that person.
    reply about 10 hours
    donteatcarrots
    donteatcarrots posted in Friends:
    Don't worry too much- it's only your first relationship- but I'd sit down with him at one point, and discuss what makes you uncomfortable, eg; if you know what I mean...
    reply about 10 hours
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    donteatcarrots posted in Friends:
    Probably sound a little stereotypical, but the majority of boys don't really act like that... Ask him :p
    reply about 10 hours
    kittenkid
    First: WHATEVER YOU DO, DON'T KILL YOUSELF! When you get past this you'll be glad. Well, this is just my opinion, but I think you should first find someone, anyone, even if you don't trust them, if there're your parents talk to them about it. I bet a bunch of people have already told you this but there're right. Before you walk up to them, write down what you're going to say and then think of a few questions they might ask and write down the answers to them. Remember to tell them that it might take you a minute to think of an answer. Before you answer, think of the exact words you will say  before you say anything, and think in your mind about it. Think about wether it is a lie or not before you say it. If it gets out of you mouth before you realize it is a lie, don't be afraid to say so and just say the truth. Also, just try to find something you like to do that will take your mind off everything. If you really can't think of anything, try just practicing saying your feelings to yourself, or a pillow or something.  Hope this helps!
    reply about 12 hours

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