Dear Dish It, Should I Ask Her to be My Valentine?

Happy Valentine's Day!

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Dear Dish-It,
There is this girl in school and we have known each other since grade school. I have been crushing on her for over a year now. Valentine's Day is coming up and our school is selling candy grams. She has been acting different around me, like she's been flirtier. So I find out she is buying me one and she says it will be from her but it will say secret admirer on it. Lately I have been thinking of how she will react when she finds out I have this mammoth crush on her. Everyone has been talking about it. I want to ask her out but I am afraid that she will say no. Should I tell her?
kbl277

Dear kbl277,
Girls can be tricky to figure out sometimes (okay, almost all of the time), but I think you've lucked out with this one. She's making things very easy for you by letting you know how she feels with her candy gram. She may not have put her name on it, but she did something just as good by telling you first hand that she was sending it. Girls don't shell out on presents for boys they aren't interested in. So, don't stress so much about breaking the news to her about your mammoth crush. She's crushin' on you too! Have a happy Valentine's Day!

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