"swirly-girly" wrote:I have the usual pierced lobes but I dont recommend piercing up higher if you have short hair. one of my friends has 5 peircings going up her ears and when she turns her head you see all the big lumps from it cuz she has short hair. its really ugly.
Not everyone gets the scar bumps though.
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listen to music, watch a movie etc
distract yourself- but don't do it so obviously that you're thinking about what you're getting distracted from. try getting through every day by doing small normal things. listen to music, occupy yourself- don't listen to anything upsetting or watch anything sad too. listen to upbeating songs, things that'll lift you up a little, movie that might make you laugh.
she's the man
the princess diaries
ice age 2/3/4
maroon 5- sugar
the script- hall of fame (ft. will.i.am)
the black eyed peas- i gotta feeling
alex adair- make me feel better
ella henderson- glow
sigala- easy love
i hope this helped anybody- sorry if i didn't e.e
do you have any tips for dealing with loss?
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dealing with the loss of a family member or a friend can be hard, especially if you were close to them. for some people, the pain doesn't go away easily, and you might find it hard to deal with for months, even years. anyway, i'm hoping the tips below will help you- they've helped me. :)
give yourself space, and other people too.
some people might like the company of someone supporting them, others prefer their own space. it depends what type of person you are. just let yourself be peaceful, try not to cloud your mind with unnecessary thoughts, especially negative ones.
let your feelings out
if you wanna cry, cry. let all your emotions out. it's unhealthy keeping them bottled in; just let them out- gradually. talk to someone, like a friend or a sibling/parent. rant to them, let it all out if you don't want to keep it to yourself. punch a pillow if you're angry, just don't keep it in.
don't EVER consider suicide.
please. there's a purpose for everybody on this world- that means you too. think of the person who passed away- if he/she was still alive today, they wouldn't want you to end your life. don't ever do it- stay strong, and keep going through it- the journey can be difficult but you'll make it. ending your life is not the answer to someone's passing. it never is. (ew i sounded harsh)
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I have the usual pierced lobes but I dont recommend piercing up higher if you have short hair. one of my friends has 5 peircings going up her ears and when she turns her head you see all the big lumps from it cuz she has short hair. its really ugly.
about 5 hours