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Dear Dish-It, I Like This Girl Who Lives in Another Country

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Dear Dish-It,

I like this girl, but she lives in another country. I will see her in a month and I don't know what to do about it.
Infierno


Dear Infierno,

Wow, a long distance relationship, huh? Those are NEVER easy and, I hate to bring ya down, but they rarely work out. But hey, I'm not one to stand in the way of Cupid, so here's my advice - take it slow. You seem totally psyched to be seeing your girl in a month and that's cool. But her "visit" probably won't be enough time to really get to know her. Online chats, emails and even old-fashioned snail mail are good ways of getting to know someone who lives far away. You could even ask your parents if you can call her on the phone, if it doesn't cost them too much money. And if you're able to save up enough cash, you could go visit her in her country next summer! Good luck!


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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    "rebelfeminist" wrote:I would suggest just asking. The worst she can do is say no. Also, if your eyebrows are already fine as is and not bushy or all over the place, you may not even need to. Don't do something just because everyone else does.
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    Talk to someone, anyone you trust.
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    I don't see that being an "issue" also, you can't always get what you want. AND, it's VERY close to Christmas.
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