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im 15 and my bf wants you know what, so please help me because i dont know if i should do it, i dont want him to dump me

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Well first he shouldn't dump you if he's like forcing you or something.....and my advice don't do it!!


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"CandyCherryCola" wrote:

im 15 and my bf wants you know what, so please help me because i dont know if i should do it, i dont want him to dump me

Don't do it. Who cares if he ends up dumping you anyways? It's better than having to raise a kid at 15.

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Don't do it if you're not ready, just tell him that you're not ready and if he gets mad at you or dumps you then be glad, he's not a good boyfriend and you don't deserve him. smile


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You're not ready for this kind of stuff, unless you want to be a mom at fifteen. If he gets angry or upset that you left him for him wanting to do that, then that's a sign of what he simply wanted all along. 


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"CandyCherryCola" wrote:

im 15 and my bf wants you know what, so please help me because i dont know if i should do it, i dont want him to dump me



You know you're not ready for ### if you're not sure you should do it.
### is giving your body to someone you love, it's not something you should use to make somebody stay. It's a personal choice, and once you've lost IT, you can never get it back.
The only reason why anyone should ever, ever have ### is because they want to. Because they love their partner. Because they literally want to give him/her all of her body, heart, love, and all of themselves. ### is sharing a piece of you that nobody else has ever seen, a piece that's been yours since you were born.
If any of the reasons are anything other than loving someone, you should not do it.


Reasons that ARE NOT good enough to have ### are:
-your boyfriend will break up with you if you don't
-you just want to get it over with
-everyone else is doing it
-you want to grow up
-you think it will make you more popular
-you think it will make your boyfriend love you
etc.


And if you tell your boyfriend you're not ready, if he really loves you he won't break up with you.  If he really loves you, ### won't make him love you more. And if you two are in love (which I'm assuming you guys say you are considering this question), you will still be in love when you are ready. That may be in a few months, years, or even when you're married. But if he loves you, he will wait.
It is your body, you need to be the judge of it. Not anyone else.

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"CandyCherryCola" wrote:

im 15 and my bf wants you know what, so please help me because i dont know if i should do it, i dont want him to dump me


Its against the law until your 16 and dont let him pressures you into it.  If he doesnt respect that you doesnt want to then let him go.  You deserves better then this

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Don't do it. You're too young to be doing that a younger age. Like people said, he's not a good bf if he breaks up with you just because you don't want to 'do it' with him, it's better then having to raise a kid at the age of fifteen.

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"CandyCherryCola" wrote:

im 15 and my bf wants you know what, so please help me because i dont know if i should do it, i dont want him to dump me

Its against the law until your 16 and dont let him pressures you into it.  If he doesnt respect that you doesnt want to then let him go.  You deserves better then this

Good luck smile



I thought it depends on what state you live in?


I thought that in the State of Texas the Legal Age to Consent was 14, but you can't "do it" with anyone past the age of 17, due to a law that states that if the age difference is a day over three years, it is illegal.
But, at the age of 17, you can legally date anyone older than you.

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"hugebear" wrote:

"CandyCherryCola" wrote:

im 15 and my bf wants you know what, so please help me because i dont know if i should do it, i dont want him to dump me

Its against the law until your 16 and dont let him pressures you into it.  If he doesnt respect that you doesnt want to then let him go.  You deserves better then this

Good luck smile


I thought it depends on what state you live in?


I thought that in the State of Texas the Legal Age to Consent was 14, but you can't "do it" with anyone past the age of 17, due to a law that states that if the age difference is a day over three years, it is illegal.
But, at the age of 17, you can legally date anyone older than you.







Idk what the law is in other states, though. Lol. .-. I'm stupid.

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