If u want gallade make sure u have dawn stone when u catch ralts. connect to pokemon black's entralink and go to black city. Talk to the ace trainer. exit the entralink and go to white forest in your world. catch the ralts (male) and give it an exp. share. put it in yer party and level it up till it is a kirlia. evolve it with the dawn stone, then it will be a gallade. please note gallade can be male ONLY! if u want gardevoir, u dont need a dawn stone. do same process and level it up to level 30.
if use the dawn stone u wont get the gardevoir. gardevoir can be male or female.

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