I think that for different widgets, you should have different amount of safety. For instance you pics, you could make it either for only you to see, only the usernames you put down, or for only your friends to see. But for your blogs, it can be on a different safety setting. If it doesn't all the way make sense, I'll do my best to explain it to you.
My whole goal in life is to get AlphaT to debate Teh_Skittlez as an Atheist and for Teh_Skittlez to debate AlphaT as a Christian.
That awkward moment when you realize that you couldn't see that amazing debate because you're not old enough to see the P&R section... -.-