I think that for different widgets, you should have different amount of safety. For instance you pics, you could make it either for only you to see, only the usernames you put down, or for only your friends to see. But for your blogs, it can be on a different safety setting. If it doesn't all the way make sense, I'll do my best to explain it to you.
All new users please search "Saveyou's unhelpful guide to KW", it will teach you all about what to expect. It should've gotten stickied, if you ask me.
This sentence of my sig is dedicated to Tyco (tycotickles/tycolovesyou), James (HeyThereI'mJames), and the other James (NachozRule) May they always be apart of KW.