Well, I was thinking it would be reeeally cool and efficient if when a person adds someone, they have the option of leaving a message (comment), too ... sometimes it's just really annoying to get random friend requests, and leaving comments ensures the person who is getting the request knows who we are ... you know? Well, when we set our privacy settings, that option of leaving comments is kinda ... gone. So that's why I was thinking of the option of tagging a short note onto the request. By the way, your changes on KW are pretty sweet - I logged on after awhile, and, boy, was I surprised (in a good way!)!

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Wouldn't they have to approve those messages,too?

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Well it would be like comments or posts on the boards - not everything is sent to the filter ... Idk, it's just something I thought would make adding friends who are an ocean part easier ...

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Everything actually is sent through the filter. The only reason things are kept in the filter is because it "passes" inspection, or in other words the words in your post weren't on our naughty list. This is a cool idea and something we've thought of doing. Just one of those things on the list of things to do. One day

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