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Do you judge teen mothers?

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About to become one myself and it's really stupid of me to judge them myself.

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I do judge teen mothers. If a teen gets pregnant by accident, then that makes them stupid and if a teen is willing to have a kid it makes them even stupider. Why? You're most likely going to be parenting the child on your own, as the father wont be interested and the parents will probably be ashamed of you. You won't be able to care for a child and attend school, so education and future work would be out the window. You'd have no way of caring for the child, as you'd have no money to look after it. So basically a teen mother would either have no choice but to give it up, or not get pregnant in the first place. 

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";melancholybird." wrote:

I do judge teen mothers. If a teen gets pregnant by accident, then that makes them stupid and if a teen is willing to have a kid it makes them even stupider. Why? You're most likely going to be parenting the child on your own, as the father wont be interested and the parents will probably be ashamed of you. You won't be able to care for a child and attend school, so education and future work would be out the window. You'd have no way of caring for the child, as you'd have no money to look after it. So basically a teen mother would either have no choice but to give it up, or not get pregnant in the first place. 


I agree with you.
But I have one question: You said if a teen gets pregnant by accident, that makes them stupid. Why do you say so?
For example, a teen gets pregnant because of malicious act of her father. Of course she can't fight back. She have a threat from him that if she tell it to her mother or police, he will kill her.
So what's the stupidity of that teenager?


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Why? Whats to judge about? It was quite likely they were raped. It doesn't make it their fault!

And if they chose to, it's their problem. Maybe its their culture, or they did it by mistake?

Do not judge. I wouldn't if I were you.


Quite likely that they were raped? Try saying that when you live in England, haha.
So many girls in my year and below are pregnant. It's hard not to judge, it's just a natural thing and I'll admit to doing it. The thing is, the girls in my year are doing it on purpose and they're doing it whilst they're in education. It's hard not to judge.


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";melancholybird." wrote:






I do judge teen mothers. If a teen gets pregnant by accident, then that makes them stupid and if a teen is willing to have a kid it makes them even stupider. Why? You're most likely going to be parenting the child on your own, as the father wont be interested and the parents will probably be ashamed of you. You won't be able to care for a child and attend school, so education and future work would be out the window. You'd have no way of caring for the child, as you'd have no money to look after it. So basically a teen mother would either have no choice but to give it up, or not get pregnant in the first place. 


I agree with you.
But I have one question: You said if a teen gets pregnant by accident, that makes them stupid. Why do you say so?
For example, a teen gets pregnant because of malicious act of her father. Of course she can't fight back. She have a threat from him that if she tell it to her mother or police, he will kill her.
So what's the stupidity of that teenager?


I think she means for example if a girl gets drauink at a house party and ends up having youknowwhat with some random guy. 


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Posted almost 4 years ago

"HeyThereImJames" wrote:



"Punkie9902" wrote:


Why? Whats to judge about? It was quite likely they were raped. It doesn't make it their fault!


And if they chose to, it's their problem. Maybe its their culture, or they did it by mistake?


Do not judge. I wouldn't if I were you.


Quite likely that they were raped? Try saying that when you live in England, haha.
So many girls in my year and below are pregnant. It's hard not to judge, it's just a natural thing and I'll admit to doing it. The thing is, the girls in my year are doing it on purpose and they're doing it whilst they're in education. It's hard not to judge.


It's their intention, so it's hard not to judge.
But in my place, it's hard to judge.


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Posted almost 4 years ago

"HeyThereImJames" wrote:







"RawrSkittles=)" wrote:












";melancholybird." wrote:








I do judge teen mothers. If a teen gets pregnant by accident, then that makes them stupid and if a teen is willing to have a kid it makes them even stupider. Why? You're most likely going to be parenting the child on your own, as the father wont be interested and the parents will probably be ashamed of you. You won't be able to care for a child and attend school, so education and future work would be out the window. You'd have no way of caring for the child, as you'd have no money to look after it. So basically a teen mother would either have no choice but to give it up, or not get pregnant in the first place. 


I agree with you.
But I have one question: You said if a teen gets pregnant by accident, that makes them stupid. Why do you say so?
For example, a teen gets pregnant because of malicious act of her father. Of course she can't fight back. She have a threat from him that if she tell it to her mother or police, he will kill her.
So what's the stupidity of that teenager?


I think she means for example if a girl gets drauink at a house party and ends up having youknowwhat with some random guy.#


Ahh okay. It's really an act of stupidity.
But what if for example her father abused her?


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";melancholybird." wrote:

I do judge teen mothers. If a teen gets pregnant by accident, then that makes them stupid and if a teen is willing to have a kid it makes them even stupider. Why? You're most likely going to be parenting the child on your own, as the father wont be interested and the parents will probably be ashamed of you. You won't be able to care for a child and attend school, so education and future work would be out the window. You'd have no way of caring for the child, as you'd have no money to look after it. So basically a teen mother would either have no choice but to give it up, or not get pregnant in the first place. 




Nice.Didn't you ever think that maybe thety had no choice?????They could have been raped for God's sake! Oh and by the way, thanks for calling me stupid. That makes me and all the other teens that are pregnant or have a child feel sooooo great about oursleves.

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Posted almost 4 years ago


"RawrSkittles=)" wrote:






"HeyThereImJames" wrote:













"RawrSkittles=)" wrote:


















";melancholybird." wrote:












I do judge teen mothers. If a teen gets pregnant by accident, then that makes them stupid and if a teen is willing to have a kid it makes them even stupider. Why? You're most likely going to be parenting the child on your own, as the father wont be interested and the parents will probably be ashamed of you. You won't be able to care for a child and attend school, so education and future work would be out the window. You'd have no way of caring for the child, as you'd have no money to look after it. So basically a teen mother would either have no choice but to give it up, or not get pregnant in the first place. 


I agree with you.
But I have one question: You said if a teen gets pregnant by accident, that makes them stupid. Why do you say so?
For example, a teen gets pregnant because of malicious act of her father. Of course she can't fight back. She have a threat from him that if she tell it to her mother or police, he will kill her.
So what's the stupidity of that teenager?


I think she means for example if a girl gets drauink at a house party and ends up having youknowwhat with some random guy.#


Ahh okay. It's really an act of stupidity.
But what if for example her father abused her?


Melissa and I weren't relating anything to raepe, that's not the case where we live. It's more stupid teens doing stupid things.  I won't judge if they get raped, it's not their fault.


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Posted almost 4 years ago

"goldenlocks24" wrote:



";melancholybird." wrote:


I do judge teen mothers. If a teen gets pregnant by accident, then that makes them stupid and if a teen is willing to have a kid it makes them even stupider. Why? You're most likely going to be parenting the child on your own, as the father wont be interested and the parents will probably be ashamed of you. You won't be able to care for a child and attend school, so education and future work would be out the window. You'd have no way of caring for the child, as you'd have no money to look after it. So basically a teen mother would either have no choice but to give it up, or not get pregnant in the first place. 




Nice.Didn't you ever think that maybe thety had no choice?????They could have been raped for God's sake! Oh and by the way, thanks for calling me stupid. That makes me and all the other teens that are pregnant or have a child feel sooooo great about oursleves.


You have a point.
Oh.
Ouch.


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