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Do you judge teen mothers?

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I do judge teen mothers. If a teen gets pregnant by accident, then that makes them stupid and if a teen is willing to have a kid it makes them even stupider. Why? You're most likely going to be parenting the child on your own, as the father wont be interested and the parents will probably be ashamed of you. You won't be able to care for a child and attend school, so education and future work would be out the window. You'd have no way of caring for the child, as you'd have no money to look after it. So basically a teen mother would either have no choice but to give it up, or not get pregnant in the first place. 




Nice.Didn't you ever think that maybe thety had no choice?????They could have been raped for God's sake! Oh and by the way, thanks for calling me stupid. That makes me and all the other teens that are pregnant or have a child feel sooooo great about oursleves.


You have a point.
Oh.
Ouch.
 


Thank you. I'm just trying to say not all teen moms got pregnant on purpose. I didn't! 


Welcome. Yes, I know right! That's why I can't judge them! Really? How did you get pregnant? I know this is very private, but you can just not to talk about that.



I was over at my ex-boyfriends and I fell asleep on the couch. He raped me while I was asleep. 

How old is your ex, if you don't mind me asking?





I'm 15 he's 16. I he got charged for it. 


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Thanks for showing some sympathy. He's gone now. In jail. I'll never see him again. 

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Do you judge teen mothers?

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I do judge teen mothers. If a teen gets pregnant by accident, then that makes them stupid and if a teen is willing to have a kid it makes them even stupider. Why? You're most likely going to be parenting the child on your own, as the father wont be interested and the parents will probably be ashamed of you. You won't be able to care for a child and attend school, so education and future work would be out the window. You'd have no way of caring for the child, as you'd have no money to look after it. So basically a teen mother would either have no choice but to give it up, or not get pregnant in the first place. 




Nice.Didn't you ever think that maybe thety had no choice?????They could have been raped for God's sake! Oh and by the way, thanks for calling me stupid. That makes me and all the other teens that are pregnant or have a child feel sooooo great about oursleves.


You have a point.
Oh.
Ouch.
 


Thank you. I'm just trying to say not all teen moms got pregnant on purpose. I didn't! 


Welcome. Yes, I know right! That's why I can't judge them! Really? How did you get pregnant? I know this is very private, but you can just not to talk about that.



I was over at my ex-boyfriends and I fell asleep on the couch. He raped me while I was asleep. 

How old is your ex, if you don't mind me asking?





I'm 15 he's 16. I he got charged for it. 

Yeah, 16. Its the legal age, he probably thought it was right to do. Please note that it was your ex, he obviously liked you enough to do that and it's a bit of a coincidence you "feel asleep on his couch".  Don't your parents wonder where you are? Wow. 

Sorry if I seem a little harsh here.



Do you judge teen mothers?

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I do judge teen mothers. If a teen gets pregnant by accident, then that makes them stupid and if a teen is willing to have a kid it makes them even stupider. Why? You're most likely going to be parenting the child on your own, as the father wont be interested and the parents will probably be ashamed of you. You won't be able to care for a child and attend school, so education and future work would be out the window. You'd have no way of caring for the child, as you'd have no money to look after it. So basically a teen mother would either have no choice but to give it up, or not get pregnant in the first place. 




Nice.Didn't you ever think that maybe thety had no choice?????They could have been raped for God's sake! Oh and by the way, thanks for calling me stupid. That makes me and all the other teens that are pregnant or have a child feel sooooo great about oursleves.


You have a point.
Oh.
Ouch.
 


Thank you. I'm just trying to say not all teen moms got pregnant on purpose. I didn't! 


Welcome. Yes, I know right! That's why I can't judge them! Really? How did you get pregnant? I know this is very private, but you can just not to talk about that.



I was over at my ex-boyfriends and I fell asleep on the couch. He raped me while I was asleep. 

How old is your ex, if you don't mind me asking?





I'm 15 he's 16. I he got charged for it. 

Yeah, 16. Its the legal age, he probably thought it was right to do. Please note that it was your ex, he obviously liked you enough to do that and it's a bit of a coincidence you "feel asleep on his couch".  Don't your parents wonder where you are? Wow. 

Sorry if I seem a little harsh here.





They knew where I was. They just didn't expect this to happen. 

Stay Strong
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Do you judge teen mothers?

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I do judge teen mothers. If a teen gets pregnant by accident, then that makes them stupid and if a teen is willing to have a kid it makes them even stupider. Why? You're most likely going to be parenting the child on your own, as the father wont be interested and the parents will probably be ashamed of you. You won't be able to care for a child and attend school, so education and future work would be out the window. You'd have no way of caring for the child, as you'd have no money to look after it. So basically a teen mother would either have no choice but to give it up, or not get pregnant in the first place. 




Nice.Didn't you ever think that maybe thety had no choice?????They could have been raped for God's sake! Oh and by the way, thanks for calling me stupid. That makes me and all the other teens that are pregnant or have a child feel sooooo great about oursleves.


You have a point.
Oh.
Ouch.
 


Thank you. I'm just trying to say not all teen moms got pregnant on purpose. I didn't! 


Welcome. Yes, I know right! That's why I can't judge them! Really? How did you get pregnant? I know this is very private, but you can just not to talk about that.



I was over at my ex-boyfriends and I fell asleep on the couch. He raped me while I was asleep. 

How old is your ex, if you don't mind me asking?





I'm 15 he's 16. I he got charged for it. 

Yeah, 16. Its the legal age, he probably thought it was right to do. Please note that it was your ex, he obviously liked you enough to do that and it's a bit of a coincidence you "feel asleep on his couch".  Don't your parents wonder where you are? Wow. 

Sorry if I seem a little harsh here.
 




They knew where I was. They just didn't expect this to happen. 

If I was your mother, i'd be seriously cautious of you hanging around at YOUR EXS house.
Even if i was in your position, i'd be cautious of seeing him.

Do you judge teen mothers?

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How long had you been dating him for?


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And was he your ex boyfriend at the time or did you just say ex boyfriend because he's now your ex boyfriend?


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If I was your mother, i'd be seriously cautious of you hanging around at YOUR EXS house.
Even if i was in your position, i'd be cautious of seeing him.


Really?

Breaking up with someone doesn't make the other person an axemurderer or raepist. You don't have any of the details of what their relationship was at the time, you're just using conjecture to support your view. 

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If I was your mother, i'd be seriously cautious of you hanging around at YOUR EXS house.
Even if i was in your position, i'd be cautious of seeing him.



Really?

Breaking up with someone doesn't make the other person an axemurderer or raepist. You don't have any of the details of what their relationship was at the time, you're just using conjecture to support your view. 


 

Since their relationship was to end, obviously a string must've been broken to cause them to break up. They may have had a good relationship, or they either were quite close, but even if they were its unlikely a guy you were quite good pals with is suddenly going to raep you in your sleep. Obviously I have no idea how their relationship was or who the guy is, but its hard not to think what might have been going on for your ex to raep you in your sleep.



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They made a mistake. But that does not mean that you have to judge them just like that. Because everyone has flaws and tends to make wrong things. I'm not saying that their actions were good, but we must be very careful before making things because we don't know their pasts.


Being pregnant while you're still a teenager is a mistake? Why? I think if we looked a bit more into the past generations we'll find that many people used to marry in an early age. Try to ask old people around you. 


I think the assumption here is that it's a teenager becoming a mother to another teenager, where the problem is the inability to support each other financially, and being emotionally immature when compared to two adults getting married and having children. A 15 year old getting married to a 30 year old with money is a little different. 
 

I'm looking at it more from my society's general view of this I guess, where the couple can live at the husbands house, and they gain their housing, food, drink etc from family. Everyone was emotionally immature at some point, why not have that innocence at the beginning of your shared life with someone. 
I don't think nowadays generations are to get married early though, but in the case that two decided to do so, I won't see it strange. 

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They made a mistake. But that does not mean that you have to judge them just like that. Because everyone has flaws and tends to make wrong things. I'm not saying that their actions were good, but we must be very careful before making things because we don't know their pasts.


Being pregnant while you're still a teenager is a mistake? Why? I think if we looked a bit more into the past generations we'll find that many people used to marry in an early age. Try to ask old people around you. 


Yes it is. (Oh, in early marriage is different from what I'm saying). Because first of all, we're just  kids. We're dependent to our parents. We don't work, they work. They make money, not us. Second, I don't know if it is true(I'm trying searching it), but they say that early pregnancy can cause cancer.

You know it's a big sacrifice when you're pregnant, because you have to quit school just to take care of your baby.

Sorry for the incomplete thoughts there.  I'm not much in the mood right now. I can explain better than this one.

 
I know you can't see it happening now, but before it was normal. 
I doubt the cancer thing. 
It is a sacrifice even if you weren't young much. From my experience woman who become mothers no matter how old they're dedicate a huge portion of their lives if not all to their kids. This why I think some claim all mothers around the world are the same, exceptions exist but I'm talking about the majority. 

Okay, when you're in the mood then.  

My opinions is right has the possibility of being wrong, and your opinion is wrong has the possibility of being right.


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