Am I right ladies?
Do you judge teen mothers?
"HeyThereImJames" wrote:And was he your ex boyfriend at the time or did you just say ex boyfriend because he's now your ex boyfriend?
I said ex because he is NOW my ex.
I do judge teen mothers. If a teen gets pregnant by accident, then that makes them stupid and if a teen is willing to have a kid it makes them even stupider. Why? You're most likely going to be parenting the child on your own, as the father wont be interested and the parents will probably be ashamed of you. You won't be able to care for a child and attend school, so education and future work would be out the window. You'd have no way of caring for the child, as you'd have no money to look after it. So basically a teen mother would either have no choice but to give it up, or not get pregnant in the first place.
Nice.Didn't you ever think that maybe thety had no choice?????They could have been raped for God's sake! Oh and by the way, thanks for calling me stupid. That makes me and all the other teens that are pregnant or have a child feel sooooo great about oursleves.
You have a point.
Thank you. I'm just trying to say not all teen moms got pregnant on purpose. I didn't!
Welcome. Yes, I know right! That's why I can't judge them! Really? How did you get pregnant? I know this is very private, but you can just not to talk about that.
I was over at my ex-boyfriends and I fell asleep on the couch. He raped me while I was asleep.
How old is your ex, if you don't mind me asking?
I'm 15 he's 16. I he got charged for it.
Thanks for showing some sympathy. He's gone now. In jail. I'll never see him again.
That's good to hear! That is the consequence on what he did to you!
They made a mistake. But that does not mean that you have to judge them just like that. Because everyone has flaws and tends to make wrong things. I'm not saying that their actions were good, but we must be very careful before making things because we don't know their pasts.
Being pregnant while you're still a teenager is a mistake? Why? I think if we looked a bit more into the past generations we'll find that many people used to marry in an early age. Try to ask old people around you.
Yes it is. (Oh, in early marriage is different from what I'm saying). Because first of all, we're just kids. We're dependent to our parents. We don't work, they work. They make money, not us. Second, I don't know if it is true(I'm trying searching it), but they say that early pregnancy can cause cancer.
You know it's a big sacrifice when you're pregnant, because you have to quit school just to take care of your baby.
Sorry for the incomplete thoughts there. I'm not much in the mood right now. I can explain better than this one.
I know you can't see it happening now, but before it was normal.
I doubt the cancer thing.
It is a sacrifice even if you weren't young much. From my experience woman who become mothers no matter how old they're dedicate a huge portion of their lives if not all to their kids. This why I think some claim all mothers around the world are the same, exceptions exist but I'm talking about the majority.
Okay, when you're in the mood then.
Yes, I know it's a sacrifice too even if you really are not young. But at least they can handle the situation without going to their parents and request what they want.
"Lady Ashbrook loves unicorns " wrote:I do, because guess what I am going to be one, so whatever... I cannot wait to hold my little baby... Whatever people don't judge them, they could have been raped... it is not their FAULT!
If you did it intentionally, it's your fault. That's kind of the meaning of the word.
So yeah good luck with that.