One man came to the teacher and asked:
- I want to love God. Show me the way.
Teacher said:
- Say me, did you love anybody before?
A man said:
- I am not interested in worldly things - love etc. I want to come to God.
Teacher answered:
- Please think one more time, did you love anybody before, at least one girl, at least one child, at least anybody?
A man answered:
- I already said you, I am religious, I am not a laic, I don't love anyone. I want to come to God.
Teacher cried and said:
- Then it's impossible, first you should love at least anyone. It's the very first step. You are asking for a very last step, but you didn't made even the very first one! Go and love somebody!
The hate can't die by hate, but only with love (Buddha)