I have no problem with my mother and other than this misdeed she was a good mother(and she is not making any excuses for herself) but I don't know if I should subject myself to go into a jail just to see her for a while. Does anyone know what it is like there and how the visiting works? I am a 14 year old girl by the way. Also, what can we talk about in the short time we probably have?
I have heard that my dad is enabling my mother. Before she has to go my dad is helping her find information on what you should do before entering jail and also said we will all do something together on the day before she goes. I don't know if this is enabling but I have been told it is
also, my dad said I still have to listen to my mother when she gets out. I mean like I said I don't hate my mom or anything and had a good relationship with her but now that she is a criminal, her telling what to do might be hypocritical