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Battling selfharm but my parents refuse to get help.

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Posted almost 5 years ago

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So.. I self harm and it started back when my dad left us, so 3 years ago. I know many people think that's a stupid reason. Well I was blaming myself for it. But I found out otherwise. But I can't stop because I feel numb inside. But I also have severe depression. I've asked my parents many times if I can get help. I've had multiple therapists but they never helped and always judged. I want medical help.. for like happy pills I guess...I've already been to the doctor and they diagnosed me and my parents refused to get the anti- depressants. But I seriously am tired of feelings like this, how do I persuade them to get me help? 

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Posted almost 5 years ago

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you need to get a REAL therapist, it sounds like the kind of therapist your getting aren't being payed enough, meaning they aren't good therapist.
also, your parents are idiots, call social services.

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Posted almost 5 years ago

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"NachozRule" wrote:

you need to get a REAL therapist, it sounds like the kind of therapist your getting aren't being payed enough, meaning they aren't good therapist.

also, your parents are idiots, call social services.


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Posted almost 5 years ago

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tell ur parents how serious this problem is and that it could get worse
show them an article or something
then, if ur aloud, phone your dad
ask him why he left that will clear ur mind
if u have a piggy bank, give ur parents that money and tell them to buy the medicine 


Posted over 4 years ago

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sweetheart. i self harm too. i know the feelings. i really want you to talk to me, though. so message me and i'd really love to help you out. ily. i don't have great advice but you can tell me everything and i'll tell you my problems as well. and this applies to everyone. i wanna make people happy. so feel free to message me anytime <3

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Posted over 4 years ago

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also anti-depressants are placebo so

H3H3H3H3 >:]


Posted over 1 year ago

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"NachozRule" wrote:

you need to get a REAL therapist, it sounds like the kind of therapist your getting aren't being payed enough, meaning they aren't good therapist.

also, your parents are idiots, call social services.



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Posted over 1 year ago

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"Wild_Child_" wrote:

So.. I self harm and it started back when my dad left us, so 3 years ago. I know many people think that's a stupid reason. Well I was blaming myself for it. But I found out otherwise. But I can't stop because I feel numb inside. But I also have severe depression. I've asked my parents many times if I can get help. I've had multiple therapists but they never helped and always judged. I want medical help.. for like happy pills I guess...I've already been to the doctor and they diagnosed me and my parents refused to get the anti- depressants. But I seriously am tired of feelings like this, how do I persuade them to get me help? 


That's not a stupid reason. From personal experience, this isn't the way to go with things and I do wish you hadn't started because it can be the hardest thing to stop. But, you do need to understand, his leaving was never your fault an I do hope you're doing better. If not, make a appointment with a doctor and mention that you need anti-depressants, but your parents refuse to understand you need help and a new counselor that works for you. If you ever need too, it is more than okay to call a crisis hotline, talk to an online therapist (even though finding one you can really go see is even better), or even being committed to the er if you're afraid you're a danger to yourself. It's not stupid, it's not ridiculous, and it's not something that will make you seem weak. If you need help, you need to get it. Depression isn't a laughing, soft matter.


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