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RawrImacat
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Posted almost 2 years ago
Being a recovered self harmer, I can tell you that, like, you should sit down and tell them. They're your parents and they love you, and they probably want to help you through this.

   "I clearly remember beating away
      All the villains who bothered you
         From that moment,
           I had your heart and even shared a kiss."


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gufht
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Posted almost 2 years ago
I THINK YOU NEED TO SEND THEM A VERY COLORFULL TEXT IN ALL CAPITALS SAYING THAT YOU CUT

Here's my siggy!

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Posted almost 2 years ago

"gufht" wrote:

I THINK YOU NEED TO SEND THEM A VERY COLORFULL TEXT IN ALL CAPITALS SAYING THAT YOU CUT


Haha don't do that ^^  I think you need to tell your parents already. They can help you.


Here's my siggy!

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parkerpride
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Posted almost 2 years ago
oh I live with my adoptive family too

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FloridaJoel
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Posted almost 2 years ago

how about this. don't tell ur parents. just STOP CUTTING. Then go see a psychiatrist.

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MissD Lock
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Posted over 1 year ago
Hi Andrea, I am Miss D. This post is applicable to all in this thread. Huge love to you all first for being brave enough to talk about what's going on in your worlds. 

I am a parent. Lots of you guys don't know that because I seem quite young but I was a teen Mom, long before I ever became a Pastor, my daughter is 14 now.. so roughly the same age as a lot of you. I also work with young people that are NOW recovered self harmers. It was one of the hardest things they have ever had to do. It it might be one of the hardest things YOU ever have to do too.  

I would love for you to consider talking to your Mom & Dad. Do you all live together? 

Be honest, be open and tell them you are scared and want help. As some of the above people posted they might get mad, but fear is what usually what makes a parent mad. They will be scared. 

After you tell them ask them to help you. Tell them you need love, support and accountability. Because we self harmers are tricky, it's sometimes nice to know that there is someone that will check in with us. 

Do some reading together, have once a week family meetings to talk. Openly about what's going on in your life. If your parents aren't talkers - ask them to help you find someone that is. 

Feel free to message me here, it's a tough place to be when you begin cutting but you have made the first step to your own recovery!! Very proud of you. Talk to your parents. Good luck! 

Vampire MiSs D Angel


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Puppiesarethebest
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Posted 5 months ago
just tell them 2 things might happens (but not ussalyy) 
they will be scared or they will be mad 
they were only scared when i told them

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cupcakesrock123
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Posted 5 months ago
 Plan 1: Ask them if you can get a speciliast or someone like that. If they ask why just say another thing such as "im stressed out with all this homework" or something else and once you get to see the specialist show and tell them really what you want too

Plan 2: Tell one of your family members or closest best friends and have them tell their parents to tell your parents if you don't want to tell them directly in front of their faces

Plan 3: If none of these plans work for you the only choices you have left are to call the child hotline (they're more than just for kids) or to continue to suffer

I never experienced cutting myself so these might not be accurate but i really hope these work

Also if you're christan think what would jesus do before you start to cut yourself

Last thing (sorry) take your mind off what's bothering you ask if you could take an art class or try cooking 

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Kittenprincess10
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Posted 5 months ago
Ok I cut too so here are some things you can do:
Tell a school counsellor (my p.e teacher saw my scars so she referred me)
Write it in a letter
Text it
Tell a teacher (they have to tell the school counsellor who has to tell your parents if you are under 16)
Tell the student welfare coodernator (I can't spell sorry)
You could tell your friends if you know them well enough (for me that wasn't an option coz I had just started a new school so I didn't know them that well)
Accidentally show your parents scars (not really recommended but as a last resort if you can't tell them)
It's really important that you tell someone though because then you can get emotional support (I saw a school counsellor and I'm now recovering) Remember that nobody will treat you different if they know. Also, schools would have to tell your parents if they knew so if you tell the school you don't have to tell parents.
Hope all goes well
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Kittenprincess10
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Posted 5 months ago
Ps. I realise this is from 2 years ago but it might help anyone else cutting x
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