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Posted over 3 years ago

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so im 11 and my cousins are 3 and 6. brenten is 3 and Caitlin is 6. so everyone in my family knows I don't like Caitlyn very much and they don't blame me but my grandma always favors Caitlyn and brenten so and I am always left out. usually it doesn't bother me but just the other day she took Caitlyn and brenten on vacation it was just over night but she also invited my older cousin but she was to busy bcuz she is in collage but my grandma never bothered to invite me and it really hurt my feelings. my grandpa said she didn't invite bcuz Caitlyn was going and I would get really annoyed which I would have but I wouldn't have cared Caitlyn gets to go on vacations all the time but I never get to so it just really hurts my feelings that I am always left out. if my grandma likes Caitlyn more I do not have a problem with that but she makes it noticeable and that's what hurts me.
             
also my parents do know that she favors and they try to do stuff about it but it never works and I don't want to talk to my grandma about it bcuz my parents already did that I don't know what to do after I visit them I come home crying please I need to know what I could do to stop the noticeable favoring


keep calm and love puppies


Posted over 3 years ago

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Sometimes things are n`t fair in life. Maybe you can try to find your cousin`s weakness or try your best to get along with her. After all, your cousin is still young. Grandparents tend to show more love to the younger ones because they are young and innocent.You`re 11 now, your grandmother might think that you`re more mature than your cousin: able to do whatever you want, able to make the right decision. Try to impress your grandmother with something that you`re good at ( I mean in the positive way) like joining debate/dancing/singing competitions--> try your best to achieve something and make them proud of you.

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"CocoC01" wrote:




Sometimes things are n`t fair in life. Maybe you can try to find your cousin`s weakness or try your best to get along with her. After all, your cousin is still young. Grandparents tend to show more love to the younger ones because they are young and innocent.You`re 11 now, your grandmother might think that you`re more mature than your cousin: able to do whatever you want, able to make the right decision. Try to impress your grandmother with something that you`re good at ( I mean in the positive way) like joining debate/dancing/singing competitions--> try your best to achieve something and make them proud of you.
  thanks but even when I was 5 6 and 7 she played favorites. I almost always get along with my cousin but sometimes I burst. my grandma always somehow finds out what I want and gives it my cousin and if my parents are around she treats us equally and that is another thing that makes me mad is she acts like the best grandma in front of my parents but the second they are gone she is a different person

keep calm and love puppies


Posted over 3 years ago

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try talking to you closest family about it...

DJwwjd(The cutest geek ever!)


Posted over 3 years ago

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say to your grandmother," i understand and acknowledge that you are allowed to dislike ANY of your grandchildren but for you to favor thats completly out of the question and completely unfair. i just wanted to be loved equally by somebody as important to me as you are. but if aren't willing to do so then i will turn to my grandfather and my parents."

samkitty


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