I'm really mad at myself because I suck at speaking my own language. No matter how much I try learning it from tutors, schools, and even my parents, I'm still bad at speaking it. I could barely make a sentence and I even cry sometimes because I STILL can't speak my native language. I wasn't born in my native country and I know it's a little normal for me not to speak my native language a lot because I was born some where different but it's really embarrasing when someone that comes from my same native country and talk to me because they expect me to know the language. Now, you are probably going to say "Who cares? It doesn't matter" but it could affect how my future wife is going to think of me, not letting me speak to other people that only know my native language, and my parents are f**kin mad at me. My dad made me say "I will only say my native language at home" one hundred times (Not kidding) and he even slapped me once when I was only speaking english. I'm so sad right now that I feel that I don't even belong to my native country any more Can someone tell me a few solutions? Because right now, I REALLY need some.

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You're getting all stressed out, I think you just need to calm down. You won't be able to do much if you're not calm, the best you can do is to keep trying to learn it, and remember that it's not something that can be done quickly, and apologise to your parents and show them that you're doing your best. Also, could you remove the swear word so I don't have to lock/report this please?

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"GawjussGracieex" wrote:

You're getting all stressed out, I think you just need to calm down. You won't be able to do much if you're not calm, the best you can do is to keep trying to learn it, and remember that it's not something that can be done quickly, and apologise to your parents and show them that you're doing your best. Also, could you remove the swear word so I don't have to lock/report this please?

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"GawjussGracieex" wrote:

You're getting all stressed out, I think you just need to calm down. You won't be able to do much if you're not calm, the best you can do is to keep trying to learn it, and remember that it's not something that can be done quickly, and apologise to your parents and show them that you're doing your best. Also, could you remove the swear word so I don't have to lock/report this please?

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"vampire girl 12" wrote:

"GawjussGracieex" wrote:

You're getting all stressed out, I think you just need to calm down. You won't be able to do much if you're not calm, the best you can do is to keep trying to learn it, and remember that it's not something that can be done quickly, and apologise to your parents and show them that you're doing your best. Also, could you remove the swear word so I don't have to lock/report this please?

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Ok tell your paren't that it is really making you sad and upset. If you do this they may feel how you are feeling all the time. If you do this then eventually you will get to know that your paren't will try hard to get the native right

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By the way I'm the kidzworld problem solver Prez

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Right. Calm down. First, tell ur parents how u feel and tell ur dad that u can't help it. Second, there are always ways to remember things, try websites, flash cards and videos. put on  one of ur fave films on in that language and after each line, translate it. then rewind, put on subtitles and see if u were correct. Hope I helped. One of the Kidzworld Problem Solvers, coolcharlie101.

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aww dear u sound so innocent ! just calm down and tell ur  parents that u cant do it but make em sure that yes u can do it ! and live in present first solve wat u have in present !  : )

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"GawjussGracieex" wrote:

You're getting all stressed out, I think you just need to calm down. You won't be able to do much if you're not calm, the best you can do is to keep trying to learn it, and remember that it's not something that can be done quickly, and apologise to your parents and show them that you're doing your best. Also, could you remove the swear word so I don't have to lock/report this please?

This. ^ But hey, if it makes you feel better, I am Awful with my native language (Irish.) Also, tell your father that Your trying your best. (: Your future wie won't mind that you don't speak it. My friend's mum doesn't speak Irish.

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