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i am a neglected middle child who is alwas abused but how come i haven't develepoved depression or any mental problems?

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its not a problem i have always been the only problem now is that i always get blamed and never get anything i want and I'm constantly being yelled at and called an idiot my sister can never get in trouble she is the baby and whenever she does something wrong i get yelled at too for "retaliation" and i always am doing something and my dad only says I'm stupid and at night before bed "i love you"  good god and i always have to cook on my own and clean up after my sister because she is "too young to clean and do chores" and thats bullshite because she is only 11 months younger than me and I'm 12  but i don't understand.. all the other kids on here are only children and they say they want to kill themselves they are in the same position as me... but i haven't developed any medical conditions/mental disorders like those kids. i mean I'm ike all the other kids on this site situation wise but i haven't developed any medical conditions like those kids.. i mean should i have one? should i be suicidal? im kinda worried and the weird thing is I'm even happy!

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its not a problem i have always been the only problem now is that i always get blamed and never get anything i want and I'm constantly being yelled at and called an idiot my sister can never get in trouble she is the baby and whenever she does something wrong i get yelled at too for "retaliation" and i always am doing something and my dad only says I'm stupid and at night before bed "i love you"  good god and i always have to cook on my own and clean up after my sister because she is "too young to clean and do chores" and thats bullshite because she is only 11 months younger than me and I'm 12  but i don't understand.. all the other kids on here are only children and they say they want to kill themselves they are in the same position as me... but i haven't developed any medical conditions/mental disorders like those kids. i mean I'm ike all the other kids on this site situation wise but i haven't developed any medical conditions like those kids.. i mean should i have one? should i be suicidal? im kinda worried and the weird thing is I'm even happy!
You're not neglected. Neglect is when your parents don't feed and clothe. You're not really abused either Put down, yeah, but i don't think "You're stupid" actually classifies a verbal abuse to an extent that the law would get involved Talk with your parents about this stuff. An actual talk. No yelling, no name calling. just let them know how you feel. As for not feeling depressed or suicidal, that's a good thing. Your life isn't that bad, you have no real reason for such feelings. I don't know who "all the only children" are, But I'll bet that most of them don't have it half as bad as they think they do. They're simply being overly hyperbolic*.  * there may be a few who aren't, but most are.

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its not a problem i have always been the only problem now is that i always get blamed and never get anything i want and I'm constantly being yelled at and called an idiot my sister can never get in trouble she is the baby and whenever she does something wrong i get yelled at too for "retaliation" and i always am doing something and my dad only says I'm stupid and at night before bed "i love you"  good god and i always have to cook on my own and clean up after my sister because she is "too young to clean and do chores" and thats bullshite because she is only 11 months younger than me and I'm 12  but i don't understand.. all the other kids on here are only children and they say they want to kill themselves they are in the same position as me... but i haven't developed any medical conditions/mental disorders like those kids. i mean I'm ike all the other kids on this site situation wise but i haven't developed any medical conditions like those kids.. i mean should i have one? should i be suicidal? im kinda worried and the weird thing is I'm even happy!
There is an innate difference between all people. What applies to a large group does not apply to everyone, even if they fit into the same circumstances. Be glad that you're not.


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You should call a family meeting and talk things through with your parents and about how you feel about the way you're parents are treating you. I think it's good that you haven't developed any mental problems, but you definitely shouldn't feel suicidal, it's not the right way to deal with things. I have to do a lot of chores, and it's just a responsibility a lot of older siblings have to take on.


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night before bed "i love you" good god Hey, I think you should feel GREAT that you arent suicidal or any of that crap. All you have to know is that your parents do love you. Some people think the hardest thing for a parent to do is punish and yell at their children. THIS IS NOT TRUE! The only thing that really hurts a parent is LYING to their children. If your parents didnt love you,they would not tell you that they love you every night! So, whatever you think, always know that your parents love you with all their hearts!

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Hell you make it sound like your the only middle kid with the same problems.

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Because, when someone is conastantly neglected like that, thats normal, your body sets that as your apex thought, and apex thught results in apex emotion, normal.


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ive feel your pain but your not be abused or what not they love you deep down....i do fel you pain becuz this happens to me to...really your parents do love you but with your sister and all the rely on you to do things they might yell at you and things becuz you are at the age were you need to know responseabilty(soz cant spell) all im saying is call a familey meetin and talk about this to your parents ask then to stop pushing all this pressure on you just try ok ;P i know you can do it

.....you all may be human BUT US DWARFS STICK TOGATHER TO THE END....so than U MAD BRO?!?!


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As someone said before, talk to your parents, stick it out. If you talk to your sister, she'll probably tell on you. Definitely not goal. If your parents don't listen, maybe talk to your aunt or uncle. Don't try to say, "You did this and that to me. Tou said so and so to me." Just say, like, " I want the respect I deserve. I want to feel loved." Something like that. And regarding not having depression. Persevere. Good luck and God bless you.


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You don't need any problems!Being happy is good, suicidal thoughts, NOT! Advice to you, keep being happy, but there is nothing wrong in thinking your little sister is driving you crazy. About the chores, I've been doing chores ever since I was four, and I was never told I was too young to do them Talk to your parents about it, and try not giving them any reason to yell at you, by that I mean, don't complain about picking up messes, don't grunt either, and don't make excuses.

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