I've been dating him since May 25th, and he's from my school. She knows who he is, because she's friends with his mom. On Sunday we're going swimming and I know if I don't tell her now she'll find out Sunday, but I'd rather tell her myself so it doesn't look like I'm hiding anything. I didn't tell her because we started dating only a few weeks before summer break, and I wasn't sure if it would last over the summer. But I know it will now because he loves me so much, he tells me every few hours or at least 3 times a day. I don't want her to make a big deal out of it, and I don't want her to tell my dad because he'll make a big deal out if it and tell everyone at work. Then they'll make fun of me because that's just the way the employees are at his work. So, how do I do this without her making a big deal out if it? And what if she says she thinks I'm too young to date? I feel that I'm ready to date, and I was crushing on this guy for a very long time so I don't wanna break up with him just because of her. His parents know, and they're ok with it.