well it all strtd yearz ago whn my mom had a bf after my dady died and thn they were togather for yearz .. my mom abandond me evn on my birthday whn i asked her to spend one whole day but she spent hourz with him it was a long distance relationship ... and later she evn sent me away bck home so she can go fly to his land and meet him and she lied to me about it so i ran away fom home whn i came to know and she called me back here and she styll nvr use to speak to me cuz she was with him and he alwayz use to tell her that leave ur daughter come live with me and thn my mom agreed and soon as i heard i tried killing myself but she took me to the hosp on tym and thn she broke up with him cuz of me and she styll tellz me tht how it was my fault how i lost the love of her lyf ..my dady wasnt the love of her lyf apprently and she is getting married again and she strtd it again she barly listins to me and   if feel soo alone and sad is it okay if i feel sad or cry about it ?! ...m happi for her cuz she has faced alot and alot but i fear of loosing her again ...wht shud i doo ?

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I can relate to you a little bit. My mom cheated on my dad with a family friend. I used to be very friendly with him until the day my mom and dad seperated and got their own house. My sister, brother and dad moved into one house, my mom , her boyfriend '& I in the other. 11 months later, I still have a hard time adapting to it. I must mention, I hate every single thing about it. Whether It's his 1 eye, his goofy laugh, or how he's very selfish .. I dislike him. Also, I can relate to your birthday story. When I was turning 13, my mom never came home to celebrate. She was out watching a movie with her boyfriend. I waited for her to come home for 4 hour before finally being convinced to blow out the candles.  Anyways, I think that your mom and you need to agree on seperate conseiling. You both are going through an extremely desperate phase of sadness, anger and loneliness. You need to take some time and sit down with your mom '& talk things through. Share your opinons '& emotions. I'm sure there's a lot more to the story than you think. Be considerate and try to understand how your mom feels. As hard as it may seem to do, you need to try. @ is it okay if i feel sad or cry about it ?! It's never okay not to feel sad and cry about it. Crying relieves pain '& sadness. Imaging going a lifetime with distress and anger without crying. That'd be tough. Cry when you need to cry. It'll make you a stronger person, I'm sure. gl,

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m sorri about tht and how is tht going for u now ?!..... and did i forgot to mension that m all alone and i have no real frendz thr for me to talk to ... sometymz i juss feel lyk ending up my lyf , i tried but my cousin came and took it outta my hand ... and my mom barly has time for me shez either working for 12 hourz or she comes and she sleeps and then just talk to him and leave again .. i relli wish i actully had someone with me my brother is back home and even his marrige is going thru tough time the girl he loves her parents dont want her to marry my brother and he'z all alone ... i never had a family since i was 7 thts whn my dady died .. i was brought up alone since then ... i went thru alot and i always getting ditched at the end ... no brother no father and no mother ..i feel alone ..

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One thing that's really important. Don't commit suicide. That's the worst thing to do. Like My Chemical Romance says in one of their songs;  "I am not afraid to keep on living, I am not afraid to walk this world alone." ^^ See? Even My Chemical Romance don't like suicide. And neither to I. Now, about this problem. It's pretty big. Maybe see some counsellors. 

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When you do get a chance to see her sit her down and ask her if you could spend more time with her. Explain things, and if she thinks right she will understand. 

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"classicalmusicisepic" wrote:

One thing that's really important. Don't commit suicide. That's the worst thing to do. Like My Chemical Romance says in one of their songs;  "I am not afraid to keep on living, I am not afraid to walk this world alone." ^^ See? Even My Chemical Romance don't like suicide. And neither to I. Now, about this problem. It's pretty big. Maybe see some counsellors. 

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thnks and yea i will !

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i try but she is too busy to listen and she kindda ignores it whn shez with him ... sometyms i feel i cant tell anyone how i feel .. but thx for the advice

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I could barely understand that. ._. But from what I could read, I would suggest just explaining everything and how you feel about her being re-married. And to ask whats going to be happening when that happens, and just talk everything through with her.

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its k ...nd   i'll try thx !

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