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How do I get my parents to stop being so mean

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xoxo505
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These comments just hurt my feelings........Some mean comments are like your so fat and your belly sticks out or especially these hurt on one of my report cards my dad yells and says  your dumb and a retard you know your friend ******* has lots of better grades and why can't you be like her?! I am only 10 soon 11 and I was doing my study workbooks and I just got one wrong and he said even a kindergardener can answer that question. theres more but this has been happening so much.This is what I said right after he said that to me Me: Why do you have to insult me?  he replied : Because I have to! I just wish it would stop. If you were me what would you do? Also if I cry loudly then my mom would yell at me and say BE QUIET!!! ( in korean ) lol

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How do I get my parents to stop being so mean

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Do not let your emotions get in the way. It will only blind you. They love you. If it is still bothering you, tell them how you feel. They will understand.

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How do I get my parents to stop being so mean

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Wow. There are other ways... Unfortunately you got a mean set of parents. Their behavior is probably not going to change bc maybe that's how they were parented. But you have to block out the insults from your head. I'm sorry.

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How do I get my parents to stop being so mean

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You really need to talk to them. If they're being mean to you like that, you need to tell them exactly how they're making you feel. It doesn't look as if they're looking out for you, but maybe that's how they were brought up from parenting and feel that's the right way to bring up a child. Perhaps they just think you can do better, but telling you your weaknesses in that way isn't right. If you don't feel comfortable tell someone you trust how it makes you feel and they could help.


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How do I get my parents to stop being so mean

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"xoxo505" wrote:

These comments just hurt my feelings........Some mean comments are like your so fat and your belly sticks out or especially these hurt on one of my report cards my dad yells and says  your dumb and a retard you know your friend ******* has lots of better grades and why can't you be like her?! I am only 10 soon 11 and I was doing my study workbooks and I just got one wrong and he said even a kindergardener can answer that question. theres more but this has been happening so much.This is what I said right after he said that to me Me: Why do you have to insult me?  he replied : Because I have to! I just wish it would stop. If you were me what would you do? Also if I cry loudly then my mom would yell at me and say BE QUIET!!! ( in korean ) lol
I suggest writing them a letter about how this makes you feel. tthis will help avoid a fight because you can think about what you're saying and edit it as much as you like. try not to be mean about it or be angry, or insult them. it was probably what they grew up with, so ask them to remember back when all they got was criticism. If you like you could even add in studies which show negative reinforcement to be far less effective than positive re-enforcement.

I'm sarcastic a lot. If I offended you I probably didn't mean to. Probably.


How do I get my parents to stop being so mean

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chioocool
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Dear I just want to say that our parents are always right! When they scold us or comment us which we dont like and we get hurt that time you should think that they are working hard for our education and I am nt giving proper output! So it is obvious! to give bad comments! I think u should always remember their hard work and study hard! and try to ignore -ve thoughts and be +ve towards all problems!  HAPPY THOUGHTS !!

Chioo


How do I get my parents to stop being so mean

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 Suck up to them Tongue Out

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How do I get my parents to stop being so mean

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Ask your parents; are you perfect?

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How do I get my parents to stop being so mean

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"Ayumi 'Boom' Gal" wrote:

Ask your parents; are you perfect?
good idea

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How do I get my parents to stop being so mean

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"TheBeautyI'mFaking." wrote:

You really need to talk to them. If they're being mean to you like that, you need to tell them exactly how they're making you feel. It doesn't look as if they're looking out for you, but maybe that's how they were brought up from parenting and feel that's the right way to bring up a child. Perhaps they just think you can do better, but telling you your weaknesses in that way isn't right. If you don't feel comfortable tell someone you trust how it makes you feel and they could help.


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