Lately I have been feeling very depressed and I self harm. I dont know y. I know its bad and all that. What do I do? Also I am very confused about something else. I dont know if I am straight or bi. I like guys but I think I have a crush on this girl. It SO confuseing. Plz help.

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I no how u feel madstar

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I think talking to an adult would be best for this situation, especially considering you harm yourself.

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"Madstar " wrote:

Lately I have been feeling very depressed and I self harm. I dont know y. I know its bad and all that. What do I do? Also I am very confused about something else. I dont know if I am straight or bi. I like guys but I think I have a crush on this girl. It SO confuseing. Plz help.

Yeah you're bi. There problem solved!!

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 I have been in your shoes in every aspect you have talked about and I can relate completely. When it comes to being bi you just need to give yourself time to figure out who "You" really are. Maybe you are maybe your not. Everything is confusing at this age. If your depressed find a close friend or someone you trust that will listen to you. If they really <3 you they will take the time to be there for you. I know it is rather hypocritacal for me to say this seeing as I have been harming for almost a year now but you really should try to stop. I am already in deep and have tried to stop and failed. It makes me feel better but now whenever I look at myself I have the scars to remind me of what an ##### I am. It is an awful helpless feeling and I don't know about you but I hate it. I hope I helped.

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thanks,Lala. I dont know what to say. You are very nice & thank you for caring. You are a very good person.

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I strongly agree about talking about this to a parent. And you shouldn't be cutting, you should talk to a parent about that about about how you feel about yourself.

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i told the school counserler, she told mum and guess what! no one cared or did anything to help me.....

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"Madstar " wrote:

Lately I have been feeling very depressed and I self harm. I dont know y. I know its bad and all that. What do I do? Also I am very confused about something else. I dont know if I am straight or bi. I like guys but I think I have a crush on this girl. It SO confuseing. Plz help.

Im not going to sugar coat this like most do….. If you’re self-harming for reasons unknown…. Well the only problem is the self-harming then…. Hang out with “good” friends.  It helps… (you can possibly be lonely) (or it’s just that weird phase that every teen/kid usually gets)   

 

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I think you need to speak to a parent/carer, or someone you trust, selfharming yourself isn't going to solve or help the situation. 

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