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well, one of my ex-freinds from kidsville Linda says that she would be my best friend if i stay way from my other friends! so i did just that! then a week later when started to hang out with my other b.f.f. she started to tell lies about me!and then she startede to get vilont with me!then one day she asked me what does my grandma work for .i told her and then she got jealous!also everytime i leave she gets all happy!so please any give me advice of what i should do!

maximiliano wrote:
well, one of my ex-freinds from kidsville Linda says that she would be my best friend if i stay way from my other friends! so i did just that! then a week later when started to hang out with my other b.f.f. she started to tell lies about me!and then she startede to get vilont with me!then one day she asked me what does my grandma work for .i told her and then she got jealous!also everytime i leave she gets all happy!so please any give me advice of what i should do!

Stop hanging with her. Simple as that.

maximiliano wrote:
well, one of my ex-freinds from kidsville Linda says that she would be my best friend if i stay way from my other friends! so i did just that! then a week later when started to hang out with my other b.f.f. she started to tell lies about me!and then she startede to get vilont with me!then one day she asked me what does my grandma work for .i told her and then she got jealous!also everytime i leave she gets all happy!so please any give me advice of what i should do!

Tell her how u feel about this.

u should ask her if God would want her to do that

maximiliano wrote:
well, one of my ex-freinds from kidsville Linda says that she would be my best friend if i stay way from my other friends! so i did just that! then a week later when started to hang out with my other b.f.f. she started to tell lies about me!and then she startede to get vilont with me!then one day she asked me what does my grandma work for .i told her and then she got jealous!also everytime i leave she gets all happy!so please any give me advice of what i should do!

First of all, telling lies about you and being gossipy may be classified as bullying. You may want to talk to an adult about this, then. Getting violent with you is something you REALLY need to stop! However, you may not feel comfortable immediately confronting an adult about this, so talk to her. Tell her you don't feel appreciated around her. Then, ask her why she acts like this. There must be a reason, right? As for being jealous of you, just remind yourself that some act rudely because of jealousy. This could have serious consequences, like being violent, or could result in wanting to 'take over' you, giving others a wrong impression on you (gossiping). The way you deal with this is totally up to you. Just remember, you don't want a 'frenemy'. Have her as a friend, but know your limits too! Hope this helps and good luck!

thankyou so much u really help!p.s. my grandma works for coach anh her grandma works for pulix!!

OK SHE DOESNT SOUND LIKE A VERY GOOD FRIEND!!!!!!!!! Why would you even hang around her when she's acting like that. is it worth it?

She has told you she'll be bf if you stay away from her friends. Why? It is your choice who you hang with, I would tell her it's over and move on, she isn't worth the pain she is putting you through!