I had a best friend. His name's Adam. Last year, we hated each other. I couldn't stand him, and he wasn't very fond of me either. But we had the same group of friends, so we had to deal. Over the summer, out friends started acting weird, they weren't themselves. and then it was just us. We were inseparable. I don't know if it was them that changed, or us, but either way it was okay. Eventually we started 'dating' and that when things fell apart. We didn't talk anymore, and rarely had any contact at all. We decided to take a break; I thought we'd go back to being best friends. I was wrong. His friends say he hates me now, and all he does is glare at me or ignore me. I don't understand what happened. I just want my best friend back, he means a lot to me.

Can you guys help me figure this out? It'd be much appreciated. Thanks, Alli.  

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Chick, this guy obviously wanted nothing but to be with you, but now since you guys 'mutually' decided to break up, I think he only agreed cause it made you happy, now all he proabably can think about is what MIGHT HAVE been.

My suggestion, MAKE HIM talk to you, make it so he CAN'T ignore you.. Let him know how you feel, cause it seems that he has trouble letting you know...

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"awesomelyepicperson86" wrote:

I had a best friend. His name's Adam. Last year, we hated each other. I couldn't stand him, and he wasn't very fond of me either. But we had the same group of friends, so we had to deal. Over the summer, out friends started acting weird, they weren't themselves. and then it was just us. We were inseparable. I don't know if it was them that changed, or us, but either way it was okay. Eventually we started 'dating' and that when things fell apart. We didn't talk anymore, and rarely had any contact at all. We decided to take a break; I thought we'd go back to being best friends. I was wrong. His friends say he hates me now, and all he does is glare at me or ignore me. I don't understand what happened. I just want my best friend back, he means a lot to me.

Can you guys help me figure this out? It'd be much appreciated. Thanks, Alli.  

If he was a true friend he would have told you that somethings wrong and would've dealed with it .

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Personally I have to agree with Storm1232. He probably doesn't know what he's thinking and doing or why.

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