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Its a long story
On 3rd standard a girl was my bff but after somedays due to her friends advice she me i too left her but after that she started annoying me like complaining me to my teacher for nothing making stories with me now i have a best friend but she made us fight and now she is walking with her always being together making me cry.... iam expecting a piece of advice from you all

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I know how hard that is, and i would love to help. Here's what i say:

1. If that girl is really taking away your friends, making up stories, and being mean to you, maybe you should talk with her. I wouldn't be mean about it, just tell her what you feel and if she just continues to do it, talk to an adult and ask for their help.

2. If your BFF was actually your BFF, she would not ditch you because of some girl. Explain to her what is happening, and that you really don't want to fight and you just want to be friends again. If she just ignored you then she isn't a real friend.

I hope this helped! And i hope you feel better :3

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aqualina
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"crazehgurl12" wrote:
I know how hard that is, and i would love to help. Here's what i say:

1. If that girl is really taking away your friends, making up stories, and being mean to you, maybe you should talk with her. I wouldn't be mean about it, just tell her what you feel and if she just continues to do it, talk to an adult and ask for their help.

2. If your BFF was actually your BFF, she would not ditch you because of some girl. Explain to her what is happening, and that you really don't want to fight and you just want to be friends again. If she just ignored you then she isn't a real friend.

I hope this helped! And i hope you feel better :3

According 2 ur suggestion i talked with her she doesnt hear what i say and i burst into tears she doesnt care anyway thanku 4 ur advice

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Talk to your best friend, not the one who was being mean first, but the one that was your friend until you had an argument. Just apologise and tell her how you feel and tell her what has happened. Don't start talking negatively about your other friend though as it could result in her just getting mad. If she's a good friend, she'll forgive you. If not, give them both some time and space and hopefully they'll calm down, all friends have arguments, it's normal.

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I totally feel you! Does school seem horrible because of this? Anyway, I think you need some help from an adult. I know people say that you should solve your own problems, but after awhile, you really need help. Having someone there to help you work it out helps a ton. I hope you'll feel better and that they realize how you feel. Sorry this happened to you!

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I can tell how hard this is, because I went through the SAME thing. But don't worry. Someone secretly would like to be your friend, just doesn't know how to ask.Here's what to do:
1)as much as you want to cry, ignore anything she does. pretend like she doesn't exist. she'll get the hint and get bored of you
2)if she is bothering you so bad and doing something against any rules- tell a teacher or parent. have them help you
as for new friends, socialize with people who aren't mean, or treat you well. the more u socaize with them, the more they'll want to be your friend.

good luck!!!!

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"Manjari825" wrote:
I can tell how hard this is, because I went through the SAME thing. But don't worry. Someone secretly would like to be your friend, just doesn't know how to ask.Here's what to do:

1)as much as you want to cry, ignore anything she does. pretend like she doesn't exist. she'll get the hint and get bored of you

2)if she is bothering you so bad and doing something against any rules- tell a teacher or parent. have them help you

as for new friends, socialize with people who aren't mean, or treat you well. the more u socaize with them, the more they'll want to be your friend.

good luck!!!!

Thankyou

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ok um... she is not your best friend if she ditched you (will not hurt to talk to her)

Two. well this girl sounds mean... so try to get an adult.

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aqualina
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Thankyou soo much friends for replying Big Grin

she wants mebto my forum posts its means a lot to me
Special thanks for:caxegirl12 , gajussguss ,bethstar,manjeri825,cryj
Thnx now shes tryna to 2 mi dont care her

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