Since i started at my school, i have always had a soft spot for this boy called James. Just recently, he started to be sort of protective over me and told me he really liked me. He said he would go out with me, if he wasnt moving to a different country... Today was his last day at school and I really am going to miss him. I will keep in contact but its strange not to talk to him... How do i tell him this?  

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"Blank canvas" wrote:

Since i started at my school, i have always had a soft spot for this boy called James. Just recently, he started to be sort of protective over me and told me he really liked me. He said he would go out with me, if he wasnt moving to a different country... Today was his last day at school and I really am going to miss him. I will keep in contact but its strange not to talk to him... How do i tell him this?  

Tell him how you feel before he leaves and keep in contact with him.

(btw, my name is James! =D)

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Lol! Thank you! Hopefully a different James  

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I'm sorry your crush is moving away. That must be really hard.

Just tell him. If he likes you, he'll understand. Who knows? Maybe you can go visit him one day! 

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Thanks   Im meeting up with him this week so...Time to tell him  

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I had the same experience but with a really special boy. He was my best friend and boyfriend and we lived next door and alays used to shout to each other to come and talk over the fence. We even made a secret passage to get to each other's back gardens but then he moved away and I never saw him again. Good luck anyway, this is your dilemma, not mine - sorry for sharing my life story!! 

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Haha, thanks. Im sorry to hear that and im glad you shared it. Im meeting up with him today...
Has anyone got any ideas of what to say to him?

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Yeah XD. And maybe you could kind of act casual but keep holding eye contact with him. Sorry, I'm not an expert but my friend is and she's always giving me tips on stuff like this, I'll try and remember some...they may help, may not. XD

1. Always hold eye contact for a little longer than normal
2. When he's looking at you, give a small wink, but it has to be subtle.
3. Ask how he is, what's happening in life but don't seem like a stalker!
4. Smile at him occasionally. 
5. Ask if he has a girlfriend (you may not wat to do this, I was devastated when the boy I liked said yes!)

Hope it helped.

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"earth707" wrote:

Yeah XD. And maybe you could kind of act casual but keep holding eye contact with him. Sorry, I'm not an expert but my friend is and she's always giving me tips on stuff like this, I'll try and remember some...they may help, may not. XD


1. Always hold eye contact for a little longer than normal

2. When he's looking at you, give a small wink, but it has to be subtle.

3. Ask how he is, what's happening in life but don't seem like a stalker!

4. Smile at him occasionally. 

5. Ask if he has a girlfriend (you may not wat to do this, I was devastated when the boy I liked said yes!)


Hope it helped.

Thanks so so so so much. I know he doesnt have a girlfriend. You have helped so much, thanks again.

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Cool Good luck anyway XD

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