Okay. I have thid HUGE crush on a boy in my class, and my bro is being a pest. When I'm in school, my brother always annoys him intentionaly as to make him react. When my crush does react, that day he tells on him to my parents, and now they H, A, T, E, him! My crush appologised to my bro nicely, but my bro ignores him while continuing to annoy him.We are both really close, but everyone including my parents are against our friendship! WHAT DO I DO!?!? They may tell me or him to stay away from the other, and since we go to Catholic school I have to "Honor thy father and thy mother." HELP ME!!!

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"ILMDGRL" wrote:

Okay. I have thid HUGE crush on a boy in my class, and my bro is being a pest. When I'm in school, my brother always annoys him intentionaly as to make him react. When my crush does react, that day he tells on him to my parents, and now they H, A, T, E, him! My crush appologised to my bro nicely, but my bro ignores him while continuing to annoy him.We are both really close, but everyone including my parents are against our friendship! WHAT DO I DO!?!? They may tell me or him to stay away from the other, and since we go to Catholic school I have to "Honor thy father and thy mother." HELP ME!!!

 

Next time your bro tells on him, defend him and tell them your bro was being annoying and then maybe they wont be against your friendship so much. If they still are then do what they say but if he starts a convo with you then carry it on and if ur parents somehow find out and tell you off, tell them it would have been rude to ignore him

hope i helped xx

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Thanks a lot. I defend him, but nobody believes me. I'll take your advice though and thanks again .

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Okay so what I think you should do is talk to your crush about your situation. Learn his point of view. Then talk to your parents about his point of view (if it looks like a good and valid one to you), and try hard to make them understand. Also, nonchalantly. you can drop hints and random comments around your family at your house about nice, good, or helpful things your crush did that day, etc. 
Also, why are you going to a Catholic school if you're not Catholic? well, you didn't say you weren't, but it seems like it to me.  Second of all, don't "Honor thy father and thy mother" because your 'Catholic school" tells you to, "Honor thy father and thy mother" because you want to. Sure, parents can often be reeeally annoying sometimes.. but they have the best intentions. They want what's best for you. Remember, they were a teen once, too. They experienced similar stuff with their parents, and we all will be them one day probably.
Anyway, those are my opinions, don't take them personally. so, yeah, i advise you to get your crush to "win over your parents "

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