It might be long but idk. My best friend Jayda who I have been friends with for like 3 years is getting on my nerves! She is always getting in bad moods, punching other people, being mean to other people, is always jealous of me because of my grades and other things, and stealing my things. Right now we're in 6th grade and this morning, our teacher has this blog and my class have our own accounts to do assignments with. Our assignment this week was to write about Presidents. We were assigned a group and a president. I was assigned with Jayda and Nadia, my other friend. My teacher said WE choose who's account we post on and I'm like " Hey you wanna do it on my account? " Jayda said " NO WE ARE DOING IT ON MINE!!" Geez she is freaking annoying! Jayda told me I was gonna type it, she was the researcher, and Nadia would edit. When I started typing she is like " No that goes first. No we freaking put that at the end." If we try to argue she would say THIS IS MY FREAKING ACCOUNT I CAN DO WHAT I WANT.  I have glasses and so does she. Sometimes she switches our glasses when I'm not looking and make a fool of myself when I go crazy looking for them. I am practicially blind without them. I'm going to New York for one year for school and stuff and I'm glad to get away form her. The bad thing is I'm leaving my mom all alone. My mom thinks she wants me to come back, but doesn't want me to come back. She wants me to come back cause she misses me and she doesn't because of Jayda. HERE'S THE QUESTION. When I come back, should I still be friends with her? What should I do to make her stop acting this way or at least tone it down a bit?

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I'll just have to repeat my answer, because this was double thread:

You know, there's no a perfect friend. Everyone has flaws, and you too. We have temptations and mistakes. The best solution for that is confront her. Say to her that her actions are too annoying, but say it in a nice way. Ask her if she has a problem. In that way, you'll understand why her attitude is not good. Advice her to change and say you'll never leave her in times of ups and downs.

Don't let that thing be a cause for your separation with your friend.

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Well. I'm in 8th grade and I have a friend, Alex. She wouldn't be my friend if it were up to me.. It's just nobody likes her. Nobody ever has. She's always mean and temperamental all the time. She has a hitting problem. I'll say that much. She gets agitated easily, She's a control freak too. If she doesn't get what she wants she goes and takes her anger out on someone or something and then 5 minutes later she's perfectly fine and over it.  When I came to this school, I had a lot going on, you know.. In my personal, family life and such. I had just gotten over a self-harm issue. But she's been really abusive, as I've touched base on. I mean, referring back to the hitting problem she has, she's really abusive. Like, a little joke, she'll hit me. In P.E, she'll sneak up behind me and hit me for absolutely no reason. What I would do, is just confront her about how she's acting towards you, and tell her that she maybe isn't the same as she used to be, or she's getting a little too mean, and you think it's putting a risk up to your friendship... Just do it nicely, you don't want her to get mad. I haven't actually thought of a way to pivot out of my never ending days of getting practically beaten up by my "friend." But yeah.. Just confront her nicely, and tell her how you feel. Hope this helps a bit.

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Nobody's perfect. Maybe she just has bad anger issues. Did she just currently happen to be yelling at you like this? If not, something is probably bothering her. Don't give up on being her friend just yet. A good friend would make an effort to stay friends.

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it sounds like it might do some good for two to get away from each other. I say when you come back from new york, see how she is, and if she's still like that to you, then I would say that maybe you need to get a better friend!

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