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How to make friends when you're a VERY awkward person?

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So I was wondering how you do that.. I'm a very awkward person, and so really bad at thinking of things to talk about and because of this I haven't had any 'real' friends since primary school (and that was three years ago..). Because of this lack of a social life, that awkwardness is only getting worse and worse.. and it really bothers me. I don't even manage to make good friends online, just.. since a few weeks I started to feel horribly lonely. Like, real lonely. Mom sometimes asks why I seem in a bad mood, but her answer to my reaction usually means the same as 'it's your fault'. Of course this isn't really helping.. It always seems like people suddenly close up when I only say a word, I try to make conversations and such, but more often than not it horribly fails. While normally I'm quite a confident person, this is also getting less and less.. Someone please give advise, I'm nearly qrying while typing this... 


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eh.. what do you mean..?


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Everybodys way to make friends are different. You just have to find what way YOU can make friends. c:


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Everyone is different and unique in there own way.  

I think your worrying too much about people thinks of you. Me advise is be yourself and you will find friends and they will find you. 

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I'm really awkward and always find a way to embarrass myself in every situation! What I do is be myself and take every second when it comes and think about what to say to people before you say it.

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thanks for the advise, but I'm not worrying what others think, I am in fact just myself
really this advise is much easier to say than to follow if that problem has been going on for years, sorry. People around me also say I should show some initiative (which I´m trying) but I really need some advise on that...


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Don't feel sad. You can't be awkward as me! 


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We are in the same train girl. I never talk to anyone and it is hard when we have to pair up with someone at school.


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You reallly need to boost your self esteem a little!! Stop calling yourself awkward! You're probably just different, but you are you and you are unique!!
And there's nothing wrong with that!!!
Be yourself and you will find a friend, or two or three!!
The main thing is to think positive about yourself, and be yourself!! When you go to talk to someone, think positive about it!! Everyone might not like you, but you will find people that do, and you will find people that share the same interests and talents as you!
Gewt involved with something like dance, sports or even girl scouts!! And that way you will mix with people!!



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