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Self Harm Guy

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BonIverFan
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April, 2013
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Okay... I'm in a year 7 class with this guy, and he cuts himself (at school) with a compass he takes with him. He doesn't seem to realise that not only is this a very serious situation that harms himself, but that it harms everyone around him too... We're not necessarily friends, but I hate sitting next to him and knowing he's cutting himself right there. Now, the teachers do know, and they're probably dealing with it, but just for those times where saying something could make a difference... Some advice please? He has cuts all down his arm and... Ugh I feel sick thinking about it... He doesn't seem depressed or anything, not that I would know... He smiles and laughs all the time... I hate being in this awkward situation, especially when I know it's serious. Also, his friends know. No one is cheering him on or anything. Our class is findibg it hard to handle as individuals. We try to get him to give us his compass, but that never works and it would only be a short tine solution. I want to approach him as a friend, but how? I know this is serious, and I know it isn't my responsibility as he has parents, friends and hands on teachers... Just for when I'm right next to him and I see the blood... Please help, I don't know what to do. -Chloe/BonIverFan

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Dimond girl
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well da thats very hard to see. The only advice i can give is- tell him it's not worth it.i self harmed in school last year people saw and some random guy in my history grabbed my wrist and said its not worth it to cut.

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BonIverFan
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And that worked for you? Okay, thank you smile

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Tell the school nurse. Don't wait, do it as soon as you can. You can't wait when it comes to things like this, don't even worry about being his friend right now, Just tell an adult at your school..

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Self Harm Guy

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BonIverFan
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Yeah, I think she probably already knows, because all the teachers do Frustrated But thanks anyway! smile

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"IlluminateItEllieex" wrote:

Tell the school nurse. Don't wait, do it as soon as you can. You can't wait when it comes to things like this, don't even worry about being his friend right now, Just tell an adult at your school..

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Self Harm Guy

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Jelly3
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You could either do what IlluminateitEllieex just said or you could just tell him its wrong to harm oneself. Try finding out the reason behind all this. 


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BonIverFan
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Will do. Thanks for all your help guys!

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"BonIverFan" wrote:

Will do. Thanks for all your help guys!


Thanks! I thought my advice was improper... Frustrated 
You're welcome! Big Grin


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say something to an adult or someone asap!
he may get mad at you, and may never talk to you ever again, but what he is doing is dangerous!
and you just might save his life!



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