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Okay, so let's call my best friend 'A'. I've known her throughout my school life and I've stuck with her, thick and thin. But recently, (for about 2 years) she's been acting like I'm her last resort.

In year 5 A and my other friend (Who I'll call 'R')  went off together, at first it was harmless, they didn't mean to exclude me, but a few weeks later R started being horrible to me, bullying me. Everyday I listened to countless insults, but the thing that hurt me most was that A stuck by her side. Eventually the bullying stopped and I put it behind me, I didn't want to keep bringing it up.

I'm now in Year 7 and for the first few weeks A was fine, we both made lots of new friends and added them to the 'Group'. But recently she's been going off with a few of my other friends and is always having 'Private Conversations' with them, throughout the day she's been whispering about me and when she has spoken she said she doesn't like me, as a joke. To be honest I'm pretty unsure as to whether I should stick by her or not, I've grown up with her and her house is like a second home to me. I don't know if I should end this or not, I mainly can't stick up for myself so I feel this will keep happening. Please help 

~Always be who you are,and remember, you are higher up than those who try to bring you down~


Posted about 4 years ago

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Hello Rebecca and I think you should tell a mature adult who you can trust about this situation. You could stick up for yourself and I think you shouldn't actually just let her do those things to you. And, was the other girl just in your primary school? 


Posted about 4 years ago

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Okies smile The 'R' girl went to a different secondary school. I'm not sure if I should tell someone, the bullying is over so I think I can handle it myself...

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"XxUnicornDreamxX" wrote:

Okies smile The 'R' girl went to a different secondary school. I'm not sure if I should tell someone, the bullying is over so I think I can handle it myself...
You sshould still tell someone

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Posted about 4 years ago

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Oh, right. And if you just ignore her, she will feel tired and bored of bullying you and it's great that it's stopping for now. xD 


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is it strange how we have the same name and I was pretty much going through the same situation?
Anyways, in my opinion I think it's best if you ask her about this. Ask her what does she really think of you. Ask her why is she treating you like crap, leaving you out, etc. If she doesn't like you, please, don't get into an argument with her, trust me, it leads to some bad things. Just say "thanks," walk away, find another friend.
Crappy advice is crappy. I hope this helps.

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Went to Narnia to get it back.
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Played Quidditch and crashed my broomstick.
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My dreamself died.
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Posted about 4 years ago

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Thanks for the advice smile

~Always be who you are,and remember, you are higher up than those who try to bring you down~


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you're welcome

Lost my sanity to a lime green pony.
Went to Narnia to get it back.
Ended up in Hogwarts.
Played Quidditch and crashed my broomstick.
Ended up on Derse.
My dreamself died.
Ended up back home.
Never got my sanity back.


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