We're too good friends? Help!

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xhoneyx
Member since:
February, 2011

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Posts: 14

Okay so sorry this is a lot to read, but I'm so stuck!

Right so me and this boy has been friends since we were like, 5, and I have a lot of feelings for him. Our parents have been talking and said we would probably end up going out at some point. The thing is, he's been flirting me for nearly 4 months now, and so I got his cousin (who's one of my best friends to ask him if he would ever go out with me, and he said we were to close as friends. Anyway, after about 3 months I gave up with him and I'm now going out with someone in my school called patrick. The day after that he asked out someone else. I love him and patrick, but I don't know how to let him know that I like him! And if I do will it ruin our friendship?

help!!!

Ed sheeran is my ginger god

We're too good friends? Help!

Posted By:

ILMDGRL
Member since:
October, 2012

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Posts: 305

Letting a boy know you like him is the hardest thing in the world. I know from experience, but the relief I felt afterward was huge. Sometimes just being honest is best. Just to note I made sure to tell him I was fine with just staying friends, but that isn't exactly what happened. I'm telling you this so you can have a confidence in any decision you make. Also wanted to ask if he knew you were dating someone when he got a girlfriend since that would indicate jealousy and therefore he probably likes you.