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Recently, my BFF has ditched me for her other friends. It was at our schools basketball game. She said she was going to get us popcorn and she didn't come back with in 10 minutes. So, I went looking for her. I checked the concessions stand, but there was no sign of her. So, I just gave it up and went to the bathroom and there she was hanging with her friends. They didn't see me because they were too busy doing their make up. I felt like I was kicked in the stomach. I ran back to the game and tried to stop the tears from falling.
A couple of days ago, the BFF from the last paragraph post something really mean on my BFF's post.. That BFF and I have been friends since we were 1 and the BFF that ditched me was jealous of her. So of course I told that BFF and she got really mad. So us three got on group chat and had a huge fight and we needed back up so we invited our dearest friends and my old BFF put her sister in it. There was a lot of cursing. I felt like she got what she deserved. But when it was over I felt horrible. I thought I did the right thing by telling my BFF about my old BFF but now we're not talking. Am I the bad guy? Or am I the victim? PLEASE HELP!!


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Well you could have handled it a little better... but its the past now.  that's all

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I agree with Cry_J, it definitely wasn't the best way to handle it but I think she's at fault here, it's never nice to bully someone and it was totally okay to stick up for your friend, but getting into fights isn't gonna help anyone. 

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you guys should have just dealt with it one on one Frustrated Nose

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you guys should have just dealt with it one on one Frustrated Nose

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"BlueRosesRedRoses" wrote:

I agree with Cry_J, it definitely wasn't the best way to handle it but I think she's at fault here, it's never nice to bully someone and it was totally okay to stick up for your friend, but getting into fights isn't gonna help anyone. 


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You're not the "bad guy" or the "victim". You guys both did something wrong. You both owe each other an apology. Maybe you'll be able to become friends again.

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