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Me and my Best friend Lexi have known each other since kindergarten. But, lately she has been running off with someone else. For example, I will be sitting around with her and Hannah and she won't talk to me.. She'll go off with Hannah somewhere. I just feel left out. She always says were best friends forever but we don't hang out as much as we used to since Hannah came into view. If I get other friends, she will ask me things like "Why are you friends with her?" I love her as a best friend to death and I would die for her but I just feel left out and I'm too shy to say anything what should I do?

~Mariah~


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I don't know if this helps.. but I would say try to get up the courage to talk to her and find her when nobody else is around to talk to her about it or maybe you could bring another friend or family member with you if it would help, maybe you wouldn't be as shy with someone else that you know there. If Hannah is a new friend of yours and hers, she might be trying to get to know Hannah and didn't mean to do this. But i think she should know how you feel about her doing this, it's not good to bottle up feelings.


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Thank you for replying. No, Hannah has been our friend for awhile... Hannah's best friend moved and she became close to us. But since 6th and 7th grade Lexi has ignored me a bit because of her. If I ever get courage I'll try. But thanks!!! And I owe you one for answering!!! 

~Mariah~


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"Singermms" wrote:

Thank you for replying. No, Hannah has been our friend for awhile... Hannah's best friend moved and she became close to us. But since 6th and 7th grade Lexi has ignored me a bit because of her. If I ever get courage I'll try. But thanks!!! And I owe you one for answering!!! 
You're welcome! ^.^ And oh, maybe the reason is Lexi feels sorry for Hannah about Hannah's best friend moving? Anyway, good luck! smile


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Some friendships are like that. If someone new comes along and your best friend starts to be close with them instead if you.. It's hard.. I know. Just arrange to meet up with your best friend, by yourselves, or talk to her about how you feel. If it doesn't work out, find a new friend.

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Thanks Sophia, I'll keep it in mind.

~Mariah~


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Go up to her and ask "Is there anything I did that hurt your feelings?" maybe you did something in the past that made her feel bad. For example: spread a rumor, pushed her, called her a name.

If she says yes: Ask what you did, and then if she explains, tell her you're sorry. It was an honest mistake. Hopefully, she'll accept your apology. If not, then maybe you should take a break from her.

If she says no: Then maybe you are both drifting apart from each other. People have personalities that do change, and sometimes, you just don't like hanging out with someone anymore. Maybe that's the case. If so, then go find new friends.


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(I'm really sorry I haven't been online...)

Okay, there is a problem though. . . I'm not the speak your mind girl, I'm the one to keep it in my mind but never say anything. I'll try my best to bring something up, she is always with that girl Hannah. Hannah doesn't talk to me, and ignores me and I think she hates me for some reason, which I don't get since she actually said when we were younger "I'm always your best friend." Lexi, my best friend admitted she told Hannah some of my closest secrets... because she think Hannah's her sister. 

~Mariah~


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Invite them over for dinner at your house, maybe? Or go out to see a movie with them?


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I'll try my best.... 

~Mariah~


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