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My best friend and I were really close before and hung out all the time, we were both in musicals and both got smaller parts, and if one of us got a bigger part, it was her. Then she took voice lessons with an amazing voice teacher and got a little better, she took lessons for about two weeks and then I decided to take lessons too. After about three weeks people were saying that I was an amazing singer and all of the sudden my maybe-best-friend hardly talks to me. She always seems really sad. (Keep in mind that my friend can't sing well) I don't know if she is jealous or what, and please don't think that i'm conceited by thinking she might be jealous I am just wondering. Please help!


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I think jealousy would be if she were angry at you for being considered better than her. It sounds more like she's just disappointed, but it's impossible for you to know if you don't ask. 

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"-Karpov-" wrote:

I think jealousy would be if she were angry at you for being considered better than her. It sounds more like she's just disappointed, but it's impossible for you to know if you don't ask. 

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Well I don't think I can ask her because I can't really say "Hey are you jealous because I can sing better than you?" That would just make her plain mad at me, she does seem disappointed, if I don't walk up to her and start talking to her she would probably act like I'm not even there!

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I don't think she's jealous -if so it's not to a point where she's angry with you. She's probably just sad because she's been trying so hard -for what seems like a fairly decent time now- to be a good singer. Having a best friend who is a good singer and is acknowledged for might just be hard for her right now.

*Try talking to her -don't ask her if she's jealous, ask her if she's okay.

*Point out things she's good at -not randomly  though... if it comes up in the moment.  Ex: She's creative and good at making crafts. Compliment her. "Oh, that's really cute. Seriously!? How do you make these things?"

*Do something fun with her -let her know that's she amazing just the way she is.

I really hope this helps! ^-^

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She's probably pretty bummed out that people are basically saying that you can sing better than her.
It might take her a while, but she'll probably be your friend again. 
Just be friendly with her. It may not seem like a big deal to you, but it's pretty disappointing for her.
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"american_brit" wrote:

I don't think she's jealous -if so it's not to a point where she's angry with you. She's probably just sad because she's been trying so hard -for what seems like a fairly decent time now- to be a good singer. Having a best friend who is a good singer and is acknowledged for might just be hard for her right now.



*Try talking to her -don't ask her if she's jealous, ask her if she's okay.



*Point out things she's good at -not randomly  though... if it comes up in the moment.  Ex: She's creative and good at making crafts. Compliment her. "Oh, that's really cute. Seriously!? How do you make these things?"



*Do something fun with her -let her know that's she amazing just the way she is.



I really hope this helps! ^-^

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"-Karpov-" wrote:

I think jealousy would be if she were angry at you for being considered better than her. It sounds more like she's just disappointed, but it's impossible for you to know if you don't ask. 
Yesh do not ask her but mqybe u could help her in a way im sure u will be friends again soon.





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"-Karpov-" wrote:


I think jealousy would be if she were angry at you for being considered better than her. It sounds more like she's just disappointed, but it's impossible for you to know if you don't ask. 
Yesh do not ask her but mqybe u could help her in a way im sure u will be friends again soon.



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"american_brit" wrote:

I don't think she's jealous -if so it's not to a point where she's angry with you. She's probably just sad because she's been trying so hard -for what seems like a fairly decent time now- to be a good singer. Having a best friend who is a good singer and is acknowledged for might just be hard for her right now.



*Try talking to her -don't ask her if she's jealous, ask her if she's okay.



*Point out things she's good at -not randomly  though... if it comes up in the moment.  Ex: She's creative and good at making crafts. Compliment her. "Oh, that's really cute. Seriously!? How do you make these things?"



*Do something fun with her -let her know that's she amazing just the way she is.



I really hope this helps! ^-^
Thank you! I'll try smile

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Does anyone like waffles?
Be who you are and sing! LIKE ME!!!!!


YAY!!
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