i think you should not listhen to what other people think or say about that its oky i have a firend who is gay  and i  hang out with him so what i dont care what people think so what if they say things its oky  dony worry what pepole think   its oky

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"BeaverGirl0012" wrote:

So I havent heard from my friend in a while,and she just came back to school today. (you will maybe understand this if you watch Degrassi new beginings). So, today a new guy was at school,but I realized he was standing at her locker. I went up to him and asked him if he was a friend of hers, then told him she hasnt been at school for a while because she was depressed or something. He then looked at me...and I could tell right away that it was no guy....but my friend! She was dressed like a guy,she had different hair color now,and its shorter. I could tell it was her because of her amazing blue eyes. I really was confuzed. I finally asked her what was going on, and she said that she was a transgender. I was so confuzed. I still hang out with her,but then at P.E when we had to change,I noticed she wasnt there. I asked the P.E teacher where she was, and she said that my friend was moved to the special needs dressing room. I just couldnt believe it. Now people are still giving me crap about me still hanging out with her. I dont think many of my friends have noticed,but I sure have,considering she was my BFF. Please reply with help, LoVE, Vada OMG i am adding on to this today because today my friend that is now a boy told me "he" had a crush on me! What do I do? Is she considered a lesbian?

Just ignore the people that are being mean, stick with your friend  because what they're going through will be hard,  and they'll need support. Good luck!

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I have tons of gay bi and lesbian friends just ignore all the haters their just jelous cause they dont have that awesome of a friend haters gonna hate thats what they do they love to see people angry or mad all you gotta do is ignore them it makes them angry

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Wow. My aunt (now my uncle) is transgendered. There is nothing much you can do about it now. I bet it is a little weird for you, huh? He even has a crush on you, that's rough. Tell him that you would rather stay friends. He would not be considered a lesbian because he is a boy. I know this is all new to you, and tell the friends that are picking on you to back off, because you don't judge people for being themselves. So, good for you! If he starts acting really weird, I might bring it up to him other than that, leave it alone, and consider him your best friend. (That's a boy!)

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"BeaverGirl0012" wrote:

OMG i am adding on to this today because today my friend that is now a boy told me "he" had a crush on me! What do I do? Is she considered a lesbian?

No, he's not a lesbian. As he is mentally male, he is straight. His physical/biological gender doesn't mean anything. As for what to do, If you have a crush on him too then go for it. and if you don't tell him you don't feel the same way. but make it clear that this does not effect your friendship. I know you're having trouble coming to terms with the new him, but try and treat the situation the same way you would treat the situation with any other boy that had a crush on you. I think he would be pretty stoked to get that amount of acceptance from you.

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I Don't Think It Matter That Your Friend Changed. If You Too Feel For Her, Then Why Not Be With Her If Not Then Tell Her, And Yes That Is A Lesbian But So What If Someone Is A Lesbian They Still Human

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"EliizAhBoss" wrote:

I Don't Think It Matter That Your Friend Changed. If You Too Feel For Her, Then Why Not Be With Her If Not Then Tell Her, And Yes That Is A Lesbian But So What If Someone Is A Lesbian They Still Human

no, not a lesbian.  He's mentally a male, he may still have the same equipment as a woman but that makes him homosexual about as much as his hair colour. As he's mentally a male he is considered to be straight. 

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Eeek! Thats a tough one! Does your friend know about the people, 'giving you crap' about her? If she does, tell her if won't have any effect on your friendship, and you'll always be there for her. If she doesn't know, tell her about it, then say it doesn't matter to you.  Hope this helped, Jessica

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