Well actually I went through the same situation a week ago and this is what we did. We sat down and talked about what was happening. We talked about the guy himself and our friendship and everything - and we decided that if our friendship was important to us, we should either both stop liking the guy or compare what we like about him and talk about that. (we chose the second one because we have the same opinions about him.) So you should try that. And if your friendship with this person is any good, you wont let him come between you 2.

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"lakina" wrote:

What do you do if you and your best friend does everything togethor but end up liking the same boy and both been wanting to go out with him so bad that you start to think that the boy is becoming a problem between you and your best friend. what is the best thing that should be done?

Neither can date him, If your friend goes out with him, you'll feel betrayed, and likewise with her, so there really isn't anything you can do.

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I've gone through the same problem. I liked this boy, Tristen, since 3rd grade, and in 4th grade he ended up in the same class as me. Everything was fine and dandy. Me and him were becoming good friends, we'd flirt every once in awhile, everything was all good until my bff Rosangely went out and told me that she liked him. I giggled and jumped up and down like i was all excited saying: "I knew it! I totally called it!" But it was really a HUGE shock for me. Soon after she told me, our teacher, Ms.Spoonley, arranged our desks in to partnerships. And guess who and who were in front and behind each other? Rosangely and Tristen. I felt hurt when i saw them laughing with eachother, and having long, happy conversations, while i was stuck with a girl that i couldn't even understand. I didn't say anything to my friend about me disliking her relationship with Tristen cause i thought i'd hurt her feelings, or start a long-lasting argument. Me and her didn't argue. But we did, indeed, do something worse. We blocked each other out. Didn't take not of one anothers actions. We went or seperate ways. That summer vacation, I regretted not telling her how i felt. So, as my conclusion, i think you should tell her how you feel.

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"vampire girl 12" wrote:

If you start arguing over him, then he won't like either of you, the best thing to do would be to try and move on.

What happened with me and my bff in 5th grade.  We both moved on.! ;3

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He didnt like her like that ,but he loved me,we went out for a few months and then i moved on he wasnt the best bf  

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"Cartoonstationary" wrote:

I've gone through the same problem. I liked this boy, Tristen, since 3rd grade, and in 4th grade he ended up in the same class as me. Everything was fine and dandy. Me and him were becoming good friends, we'd flirt every once in awhile, everything was all good until my bff Rosangely went out and told me that she liked him. I giggled and jumped up and down like i was all excited saying: "I knew it! I totally called it!" But it was really a HUGE shock for me. Soon after she told me, our teacher, Ms.Spoonley, arranged our desks in to partnerships. And guess who and who were in front and behind each other? Rosangely and Tristen. I felt hurt when i saw them laughing with eachother, and having long, happy conversations, while i was stuck with a girl that i couldn't even understand. I didn't say anything to my friend about me disliking her relationship with Tristen cause i thought i'd hurt her feelings, or start a long-lasting argument. Me and her didn't argue. But we did, indeed, do something worse. We blocked each other out. Didn't take not of one anothers actions. We went or seperate ways. That summer vacation, I regretted not telling her how i felt. So, as my conclusion, i think you should tell her how you feel.

Exact same story with me and my  bff in 6th grade - diff. dude - Except for the ending. I never told her. She left this school, though. We're still amazing friends. But the guy is still in my school. He and I are actually close friends. c;

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Unacceptable!

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well non of my true frnds has ever been with my boi frnd just forggive nd forget just rember that u had him frist when he gets tired of her or when she gets tired of him tell them both is is what u wanted im not in    BTW GO ADD MII ONCE U SEE THIS !!!

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i think u should just wait and u both just try to like others and just maybe he might end up not liking either of yall

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