Dear Dish it,I have a friend that I've known for a while, and she's a kinda good friend. But I feel like she only wants to be my friend for everything else except a true friend. Sure she seems like someone who's fun to be around and talk to, and she is! But just not all the time. Whenever I need someone to talk to she's never there. When ever we have an argument we end up making up. But There's something inside me telling me that she's not a true friend or a good friend for me. My mind says she's a true friend,but my heart disagrees. What should I do? Are we bffs, or frenemies? 

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Dear Lala30,            I think you guys are well...... frenemies. A real true friend is someone who is ALWAYS there for you. Don't worry. You are not the only one with that problem. Lots of people have it. Like me. I have a friend who acts like my BFF but really. she isn't. That's my opinion. What's yours?                                  Sincerly,                                                    Vanessa                                                

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I had a friend lik dat but she ended up treatin me lik trash n she was never there for me so I desided we werent friends anymore so I think yhu guys are frenemies

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She is totally a horrible friend! You guys are Frenemies you should talk to her mabey she doesn't know that she is doing it..... I think that you seem like a cool and always there for a friend type of person and if I was that girl I would not treat you like dirt  would treat you like roalty (I know spelled wrong i think)  

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look i dont think youre frenemies. i just think you need to talk about it. trust me i was in the same position with my bff Jordan. once he and i talked it out everything great and he's always there for me. truthfully, Hailey Cauthen

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I would never have a "frienemy"

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I have a "Frenimie",but she's gone on holiday for the moment.If you don't like the fact that she's your friend,the answer is so simple!.Just don't be her friend.

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I wouldn't say she is a 'Frienemy' because she is still a friend. She still hangs out with you and stuff. But she isn't a true friend if she isn't there for you. And don't break up with her just because she isn't there for you. Maybe she is just a normal 'hi & bye' friend.

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A true friend should always be there for you, so she's not a true friend, but I also don't think she's your Frienemy either. 

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i have a few friemds like that but i'm still friends so yeagh their like a hi and bye friend . don#t break up the frienship

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