Look I've been thinking about it and my old boyfriend is now my friend and I am the total loser. The worst part is that my best friend even has a teeny crush. He has smiled at me once or twice but not a lot. I don't know what to say to him, look at it this way. what do I say? What should I do?

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"theboysthatlovegirlsrock" wrote:

Look I've been thinking about it and my old boyfriend is now my friend and I am the total loser. The worst part is that my best friend even has a teeny crush. He has smiled at me once or twice but not a lot. I don't know what to say to him, look at it this way. what do I say? What should I do?

   Girl tell him how you feel! The worst that can happen is that he will have found a new boo. If he doesn't smile a lot it's either because you don't joke around with him or because he's gotten over you. But be brave! I told my sisters boyfriend that I had a crush on him and he didn't freak out or anything. Plus we are still friends. BTW your SO not a loser! Always stay positive.

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idk because my ex isn't my friend because, well its a long story and I don't want to talk about it. You might just have to give it time, He may still love you but no in that way

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You can't get him to love you. If he doesn't love you, then he doesn't love you. You can't change the way he feels. I know exactly how you feel but your just gonna have to try and get over him. Don't talk to him, if that helps.

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ya that will help but it will be hard but still do it because it will be the best but maybe you guys can be just friends just try and get over him and find someone else

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thanks foryour help I will tell him how I feel about him.Nothing bad can happen besides I helped my bff get her boyfriend to love her.

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You Can't Make Someone Love You

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You can't force him to like you again, but he could still like you? Just talk to him like he's your friend first and take it from there. 

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