Okaii, so I have a friend. She's absoulutley heartbroken because her boyfriend dumped her. I know, pretty stupid to be dating at her age. ANYWAYS she was talking to me via videochat while I comforted her and then she said she had an idea. She told me she has decided to make her ex jealous somehow. I told her it would lead to bad things and it'd get messy. She's not taking it in. I kinda need help quick. But I find her confusing. She's saving hate files onto her computer about him and now she's trying to get him back. I don't even know why she'd save hate files. HELP

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i think u need to talk to her nd fast because making someone jealous to get revenge is wrong nd she shouldnt be saving those hate files because, that will just remind her how angry she is at him. 

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tell her it's a REALLY bad idea and not to do it cuz it never works!!!!!!!!!!! 

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No That Never Works

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"classicalmusicisepic" wrote:

Okaii, so I have a friend. She's absoulutley heartbroken because her boyfriend dumped her. I know, pretty stupid to be dating at her age. ANYWAYS she was talking to me via videochat while I comforted her and then she said she had an idea. She told me she has decided to make her ex jealous somehow. I told her it would lead to bad things and it'd get messy. She's not taking it in. I kinda need help quick. But I find her confusing. She's saving hate files onto her computer about him and now she's trying to get him back. I don't even know why she'd save hate files. HELP

If she wants him back, jealousy and revenge isn't the way to go. Make sure she has a TALK with him, because all her ex is going to think if she takes revenge or whatever, is that she's childish or something.  I'm sorry for coming across as rude, but that's the only way I could think of putting it. If she just talks with him and the situation, then he will take her more seriously and understand her more than if she just does bad things to him. Also, the hate files aren't the way to go either, that's just mean... 

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if she ever tries interacting not-nicely with her ex then try and get in her way.... a lot. i know you'll seem like a toddler begging for the new type of cereal but  hey at least you'll save her from a very embarrassing childhood memory, and once you can get her to calm down take the two together and talk about the issue, just make sure that there are no violent outbursts!

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"classicalmusicisepic" wrote:

Okaii, so I have a friend. She's absoulutley heartbroken because her boyfriend dumped her. I know, pretty stupid to be dating at her age. ANYWAYS she was talking to me via videochat while I comforted her and then she said she had an idea. She told me she has decided to make her ex jealous somehow. I told her it would lead to bad things and it'd get messy. She's not taking it in. I kinda need help quick. But I find her confusing. She's saving hate files onto her computer about him and now she's trying to get him back. I don't even know why she'd save hate files. HELP

"classicalmusicisepic" wrote:

Okaii, so I have a friend. She's absoulutley heartbroken because her boyfriend dumped her. I know, pretty stupid to be dating at her age. ANYWAYS she was talking to me via videochat while I comforted her and then she said she had an idea. She told me she has decided to make her ex jealous somehow. I told her it would lead to bad things and it'd get messy. She's not taking it in. I kinda need help quick. But I find her confusing. She's saving hate files onto her computer about him and now she's trying to get him back. I don't even know why she'd save hate files. HELP

Ooo. Well, she shouldn't be doing that stuff. She should try to gain friendship with her Ex, if she does not then she should try to avoid him I guess. Or she should try to spend time away from places he is most of the time.

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