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Well I have this friend , well had this friend. Her name is Chloe and she was basically your typical emo girl. My other friend and I decided a while back to help her get out of her little emotion rut and help her have a life with friends and things she can be happy about. And for the most part it worked. Sounds perfectly okay right? No. I may have forgotten to mention her sexuality. Bisexual. I am not a homophobic nor have I ever been but I won't lie I wasn't to happy about having a friend who could think of my friend or I being her girlfriend. But I pushed away those feelings and became her friend. Now , something has happened my worst fear. She told me she liked me. I was mad. Mad , grossed out, irritated , disappointed and so many other things. She knew and knows I'm Straight but likes/liked me anyways. I told her I wanted her to leave me alone and I tried to let it be known that I did not feel the same in any way , and that I was mad.  My friend feels/felt the same.She got super angry , and sent me a message about how much of a jerk I am then blocked me on Fbook. She let her anger show at school today as well. This may sound terrible but I feel better knowing that she probably despises me rather than liking me. I feel disappointed that she would do that too , like after all we did for her she'd disregard my feelings  , my sexuality and everything I've ever told her about myself and like me. Is that a good way to repay your friends? But I also feel guilty for hurting her.  Am I in the wrong and Is what she did wrong as well?


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Just tell her your sorry. You don't have to date her but just same calm "Im sorry I was angry at you but I just don't feel the same way"

"The dreamers of day are dangerous men, for they may act their dreams with open eyes. This I did." - T.E Lawrence.


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I didn't ask what I should do, I asked if what I did was wrong and if what she did was also wrong..


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"OnceForgotten" wrote:

I didn't ask what I should do, I asked if what I did was wrong and if what she did was also wrong..
In my opinion, what she 'did' wasn't wrong.. :P I don't think you should've been that angry honestly. If she likes you, then she likes you and that's that.


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i will not dish my friend


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"Comicbook Girl" wrote:

"OnceForgotten" wrote:

I didn't ask what I should do, I asked if what I did was wrong and if what she did was also wrong..
In my opinion, what she 'did' wasn't wrong.. :P I don't think you should've been that angry honestly. If she likes you, then she likes you and that's that.
Honestly I think you're right on most of it. I don't think it was anger as in I was made at her but more like it was something I saw coming and wanted to avoid but in the end I couldn't and ended up in a bad position. Maybe my use of the word did was used incorrectly. She was just expressing her self  romantically..I just feel like if I was I guy and I know she was Bi ( now Les ) I wouldn't even let myself begin to like her because I respect her sexuality.


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"OnceForgotten" wrote:

"Comicbook Girl" wrote:

"OnceForgotten" wrote:

I didn't ask what I should do, I asked if what I did was wrong and if what she did was also wrong..
In my opinion, what she 'did' wasn't wrong.. :P I don't think you should've been that angry honestly. If she likes you, then she likes you and that's that.
Honestly I think you're right on most of it. I don't think it was anger as in I was made at her but more like it was something I saw coming and wanted to avoid but in the end I couldn't and ended up in a bad position. Maybe my use of the word did was used incorrectly. She was just expressing her self  romantically..I just feel like if I was I guy and I know she was Bi ( now Les ) I wouldn't even let myself begin to like her because I respect her sexuality.
Ah. I see. ^^ I think you go ahead and talk to her though. I think if you explain to her, she'd understand. After all, she's still your friend right?


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You Can't Change People

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I think what you did may of been just a little bit harsh, she can't control who she likes and I doubt she meant any harm or offense when she told you she liked you. I don't blame you for acting like that though, don't feel bad, it's only natural. smile


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I think how you said it was wrong, you can't help who you like


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