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OnceForgotten
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Well I have this friend , well had this friend. Her name is Chloe and she was basically your typical emo girl. My other friend and I decided a while back to help her get out of her little emotion rut and help her have a life with friends and things she can be happy about. And for the most part it worked. Sounds perfectly okay right? No. I may have forgotten to mention her sexuality. Bisexual. I am not a homophobic nor have I ever been but I won't lie I wasn't to happy about having a friend who could think of my friend or I being her girlfriend. But I pushed away those feelings and became her friend. Now , something has happened my worst fear. She told me she liked me. I was mad. Mad , grossed out, irritated , disappointed and so many other things. She knew and knows I'm Straight but likes/liked me anyways. I told her I wanted her to leave me alone and I tried to let it be known that I did not feel the same in any way , and that I was mad.  My friend feels/felt the same.She got super angry , and sent me a message about how much of a jerk I am then blocked me on Fbook. She let her anger show at school today as well. This may sound terrible but I feel better knowing that she probably despises me rather than liking me. I feel disappointed that she would do that too , like after all we did for her she'd disregard my feelings  , my sexuality and everything I've ever told her about myself and like me. Is that a good way to repay your friends? But I also feel guilty for hurting her.  Am I in the wrong and Is what she did wrong as well?

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Just tell her your sorry. You don't have to date her but just same calm "Im sorry I was angry at you but I just don't feel the same way"

Hello. I am Zack. What do you want to know about me? I'm just a regular old user who isn't quite active anymore. If you see this either I am on a visit or back for good.


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OnceForgotten
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I didn't ask what I should do, I asked if what I did was wrong and if what she did was also wrong..

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Comicbook Girl
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"OnceForgotten" wrote:

I didn't ask what I should do, I asked if what I did was wrong and if what she did was also wrong..
In my opinion, what she 'did' wasn't wrong.. :P I don't think you should've been that angry honestly. If she likes you, then she likes you and that's that.


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So that you'll sneer...
So that you'll tremble...
Right now, you are just
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terious12345
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i will not dish my friend

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OnceForgotten
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"Comicbook Girl" wrote:

"OnceForgotten" wrote:

I didn't ask what I should do, I asked if what I did was wrong and if what she did was also wrong..
In my opinion, what she 'did' wasn't wrong.. :P I don't think you should've been that angry honestly. If she likes you, then she likes you and that's that.
Honestly I think you're right on most of it. I don't think it was anger as in I was made at her but more like it was something I saw coming and wanted to avoid but in the end I couldn't and ended up in a bad position. Maybe my use of the word did was used incorrectly. She was just expressing her self  romantically..I just feel like if I was I guy and I know she was Bi ( now Les ) I wouldn't even let myself begin to like her because I respect her sexuality.

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"OnceForgotten" wrote:

"Comicbook Girl" wrote:

"OnceForgotten" wrote:

I didn't ask what I should do, I asked if what I did was wrong and if what she did was also wrong..
In my opinion, what she 'did' wasn't wrong.. :P I don't think you should've been that angry honestly. If she likes you, then she likes you and that's that.
Honestly I think you're right on most of it. I don't think it was anger as in I was made at her but more like it was something I saw coming and wanted to avoid but in the end I couldn't and ended up in a bad position. Maybe my use of the word did was used incorrectly. She was just expressing her self  romantically..I just feel like if I was I guy and I know she was Bi ( now Les ) I wouldn't even let myself begin to like her because I respect her sexuality.
Ah. I see. ^^ I think you go ahead and talk to her though. I think if you explain to her, she'd understand. After all, she's still your friend right?


COME ON
LET'S DANCE,
So that you'll sneer...
So that you'll tremble...
Right now, you are just
BEAUTIFUL.


My Friend...

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You Can't Change People

Life Won't Always Be Great So All You Have To Do Is Live, Laugh, Love


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I think what you did may of been just a little bit harsh, she can't control who she likes and I doubt she meant any harm or offense when she told you she liked you. I don't blame you for acting like that though, don't feel bad, it's only natural. smile

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I think how you said it was wrong, you can't help who you like


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