yesterday my close friend told me this and i had no idea to tell her what to say to her ..so please help me .... herz the story 

she broke up with her boyriend she honestly relli loved him but she had to break up because she was going through a rough time and she said that she needs to stop getting into relationships because it hurts her in the end and now she is to scared to get attachd to anyone and the ones who are to her dont really care about her that much....now she is with this other guy who is her friends with benefits...they are planning to have their first time together ..but she still has feelings for him and now she is just trying to escape it ...in the past she has been through a lot and her ex bf was also very suicidal and she cuts herself .... she has a best friend nd they both kissed to but that was in the momnt thing ... i mean they dint do it intensionaly nd stuff and it got awks for them both nd there relli close ... they act lyk a couple but thr only best friends ...and she is soo confused and now she lowers herself down ...she calles her self a slu* ...a who**e which i noe she isnt because she has never thought of any of this ...nd she also regrets having the friends with benefits but she cant just go tell him no because he can use it against her and she is too scared and she has already done many things with him its gonna be very bad ... she is relli confused ... i mean she was never like this and suddnly everythng happnd ... and she also has lonlyness problmz ...her mom works lyk 12 hourz and she doesnt have a father and she hasnt seen her brother for like years ... idk wht to say to her plzz help me ?! ... 

plzzz help asap !