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self esteem,how to improve it

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High self esteem is overrated.

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nobody is ever happy with themselve unless they are obsessed. there is always something holding them back.


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A lot of times you can know a lot about a person even though you never set eyes on them before,RULE#1 is love yourself,#2you have to first love you before you can love someone else#3if you look down on yourself it is hard to even give someone a compliment#4that is without finding some fault#5 ok dont matter what others may thinkfeel good about yourself


There's something wrong with this...

1. You can't love yourself first. You must always put others before yourself. You're first rule is self-centered, and will only cause the person who is "working on their self-esteem" to be in more stress, and you'll cause more hurt.

2. You switched that rule around..You can't love yourself until you love someone else and accept them for who they are. You saying that you have to love yourself is implying "I'm the greatest, look at me! The world must bow down to me! I have the right to have the world on a platter!" A more selfish look upon life will cause hurt, pain, and suffering.

3. If you look down on yourself it isn't hard to give someone else a compliment. I do it all the time. If you look down on yourself it means you believe that you are not worth anything. It means you are depressed/upset about something that has/had happened in your life or someone else's.

In order to fix the self-esteem issue, you do not put yourself first.

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why are you so hard on yourself? look in a mirror and ask this question WHO DO I LOVE MORE?is it you are whoever,my answer would have been me,so whenever anyone and i should put emphasis on anyone try to let you feel bad ask yourself that question WHO DO YOU LOVE MORE?you take credit for that, feel good about yourself and walk along my friend

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i have some love for myself because the way i am... but it''s hard to love yourself all the time. you know?


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that is only the first step it isnt that bad,you knowif i knew more maybe i could talk with you further but i cannot judge you for being so harsh on yourself,cause i really dont know the problem but whatever it is dont let it win ok

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why are you so hard on yourself? look in a mirror and ask this question WHO DO I LOVE MORE?is it you are whoever,my answer would have been me,so whenever anyone and i should put emphasis on anyone try to let you feel bad ask yourself that question WHO DO YOU LOVE MORE?you take credit for that, feel good about yourself and walk along my friend


once again you approach the situation with a self-centered attitude. If you believe that it is all about you, you are NOT the person who should be instructing people about how they should have more self-esteem. You don''t have the slightest clue as to how to encourage someone to have better self-esteem. If you did, you would realize, that self-esteem isn''t a self-centered look on life. It is the courage that you are beautiful, or that you can do something. If you have to ask yourself who do you love more, then you have issues.

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i love myself... with exceptions of when i feel ashamed. then i just feel rotten


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i love myself... with exceptions of when i feel ashamed. then i just feel rotten

^ but like i was saying it''s impossible to love yourself all the time


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you have good sense of humour,you know that yeah seriously

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