Dear Dish-It, He Is Ready to Have Sex

Dear Dish-It

Dear Dish-It is here to help with all your hot tops. Be it bullying, sibling rivalry, self-esteem problems, depression or suicide, Dish-It is here for ya. On the fly, she gives great teen dating advice, some deep thoughts on the hot topics like flirting, cheaters, best friends, the straight-up on boys and boyfriends as well as the real deal on girls and girlfriends. Dear Dish-It's got the words to make it work. Need advice on love and life, then just start writin' Dish-It. And now, Dish-It is hanging on the boards, so head on over to see the advice she's dishin' up there!

Dear Dish-It,
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month and a half. He is ready to have sex. I am only 13... What should I do? Holla back at your girl soon.
lilmama614

Dear lilmama614,
C'mon girl, you know the answer to your own question. You said so yourself when you let me know that you're only 13. You're not ready for sex. And just so you know, a month and a half is nuttin' on the datin' scale. There is no way, no how, that you know enough about this boy, let alone (and more to it) yourself! Do me a fave, take it slow and wait, wait, wait. If this boy turns out to be the one... then he'll listen to ya. And if he doesn't understand, then let him talk to the hand.

Dear Dish-It,
I go out with this boy. But I am trying to get with someone else. He found out I have a boyfriend. I really like both of these boys. What should I do?
lilmama614

Dear lilmama614,
Well, I can tell ya what not to do. You don't need to have sex with either of them! Geez girl, why are ya asking me about sex when ya can't even figure out who you're dating. I don't even think you're ready to date. You're not being honest with your boy... you sooo don't know what you want. So I gotta know why are you with either of these guys? Do ya even know? Is it cuz it's what everyone else is doin'? Look you shouldn't be hookin' up with anyone. And peeps, I have a 'puter with email... I can see whose sending the email and what address it's comin' from (even when you sign it with a different username!)

Dear Dish-It,
Hi my name is Anonymous, umm... I had a boyfriend who dumped me the day before Valentine's Day. It really hurt cuz I felt I loved him and it really hurt my feelings. What should I do?
Anonymous (1:07 PM)

Dear Dish-It,
Hey, there is a man, we call Sir-Stare-Alot at the library we go to. He is a sick puppy trying to prey on us girls. We just hate him. What do you think we should do?
Anonymous (1:16 PM)

Dear Dish-It,
My boyfriend and I just had sex. He got me pregnant. But now he can't be found. He also got my sista, cousin, and my best friend pregnant. What should I do?
Anonymous (1:23 PM)

Dear Anonymous,
First thing you can do is STOP LYING! Puhleeze girl! You sent me three Q's in less than 20 minutes. Whassup with that? And to tell stories 'bout real issues? Not even close to funny. You know I'm here for y'all but when I get stuff like this... Look if you're not lyin' like some shaggy little rug then here are some words of advice for ya. 1) Get over him. He hurt you and that's bad but it's not the end of the world! Think of yourself as tradin' up... you just haven't found the new model yet. 2) Tell the librarian about Sir-Stare-Alot. He sounds totally freaky. The librarian will probably ask him to leave and tell him not to come back. You should also mention it to your 'Rents. They may even check it out for themselves or phone the Library to complain (kinda 'Rent backup.) 3) First ya need to stop sleeping with peeps... particularly players. Forget about pregnancy, what about your health? STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases) can kill ya. You and all ya girls need to hit up the local health clinic and get properly tested for pregnancy and STDs. Then you need to explore your options. The clinic will direct you to a number of support programs. And what about your 'Rents.. It might sound like a load but you may be surprised by how much 'Rents can really help. Hey, everyone needs their mom or dad now and then.

So gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' about stuff like teen suicide, depression, sex, low self-esteem, boyfriends, girlfriends, losing old friends, bullying or peer pressure, but are too scared to ask the 'rents? Don't be scared to Dish-It. Just remember, if you hang out in chat with other Kidzworld members who know you by your nick, you might wanna use a secret nick when you write in. That way, no one will ever know it's you. Remember though, Dish-It gets tons of letters a day, so she can't answer 'em all. But keep checkin' the column cuz chances are, she'll be answering something very similar to your question soon. Thanks! Got some words of wisdom you wanna share? We'll dish them up too.

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