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Posted 12 months ago

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Hi. So when I was a kid I was pretty stupid, silly, but also cute. XD But, yeah I took the wrong meaning of a guy's actions. I stopped though, luckily. And I find the whole thing to be embarrassing now that I'm mature.
Then, after that there was someone else for just one week, and he wasn't like anybody I knew. So I started crushing on him cause there was no other guy who used to be nice to me at that age.
And then, like three months later, someone else came.
He was new, so I didn't know him But he seriously was the nicest. Usually all guys are awkward around me, and I know why. First there are the jerks whom I don't bother with, but there are others who realise I'm an okay girl after I kind of get them to feel relaxed around me.
But I didn't have to do anything with this one, he was relaxed right from the starting. I didn't even know him when he first said something to me. And he has done some nice things for me. (Though keep in mind he’s relaxed around everyone)
I guess you could say our friend groups and all are completely different, and maybe I've ruined it by overthinking again. But he has done things for me that nobody else has and I'm thankful. (I don’t think he knows I like him but who knowsssss)
But why do I keep overthinking? Is it just me or does everyone get attracted to someone 'cause they make you feel better about things? Anyone has advice?
I think I kinda ruined it now... but I'm trying to get over him. This one is really hard though.
But seriously, why do I keep making the same mistakes and will I ever stop doing this?
Someone help me here.

Ain't it good to let em think you're clueless?

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Posted 11 months ago

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I can relate very much.  Disappointed  It happens a lot. But here's one thing, try not to date. At my middle school, everyone literally dates everybody and relationships never last. Part of the reason is that most of us aren't in that mature phase yet (mostly boys). As the days go by, we're growing. But, it's completely normal to have a crush on a boy. smile Thumbs Up

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Posted 11 months ago

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Haha, thank you. I don't want to date, it's just that these stupid crushes Frustrated

Ain't it good to let em think you're clueless?

4000th post: 6/8/2018 1:48 PM


Posted 6 months ago

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@luckycharms thank you so much. I made this thread ages ago but I still kind of have the same problem. I don't think it's because I want someone to make me feel better about myself anymore but it is because I am overthinking. That's how crushes usually start for me and I fall hard. Also I worry a lot, make up crazy theories about people in my head and let my imagination go wild; which is fun but also scary. I'm not the only one with an overthinking and worrying problem though, am I? Someone please say they have the same problem as me XD

Ain't it good to let em think you're clueless?

4000th post: 6/8/2018 1:48 PM


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