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self esteem,how to improve it

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Posted over 12 years ago

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now that is good


Posted over 12 years ago

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Date: 1/16/2006 5:17:29 PM
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why are you so hard on yourself? look in a mirror and ask this question WHO DO I LOVE MORE?is it you are whoever,my answer would have been me,so whenever anyone and i should put emphasis on anyone try to let you feel bad ask yourself that question WHO DO YOU LOVE MORE?you take credit for that, feel good about yourself and walk along my friend

Who do I love more? My friends.
Why am I so hard on myself? Because I look at myself and see my life unfolding, my dreams being crushed. What''s to love? Not me. I love the tree outside more than myself.


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i do? so thanks? i guess that''s a good thing


Posted over 12 years ago

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right, well I''m not pursuing this. It''s a hopeless cause. Someone who believes that they are the best, and that they know everything isn''t going to realize that they are enforcing something that will cause more hurt..

Gigi- you''re right, you can''t love yourself all the time. It is impossible. Technically, if you want help in the self-esteem area, don''t look for it here. This particular person does not have any idea whatsoever about self-esteem. This person believes in loving yourself and only yourself. If that was how the world was supposed to be, none of us would ever get along.


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so loving myself is self centered eh? well girl i been there i know what it is to feel ugly,to feel like i have to try and be like that other person then maybe someone will like me,well guess what i have to disagree with you,as my mom would say she is a realistic person,this is reality check girl ,how could you not love yourself first,how can someone tell me they love me, and cannot love theirself now that is hypocrisy,so how can i love someone and can''t love myself,you answer that.anyone that laugh in a crisis as certainly found someone to blame for that crisis ok


Posted over 12 years ago

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if you were nothing i wouldnt have noticed you, people dont see nothing or hear nothing they see someone or hear someone,so you are someone


Posted over 12 years ago

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dont get me wrong,i do not love myself all the time,i love myself most of the time while loving others at the same timeok


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do you even understand the term self centered?you have toread with understanding first of all self esteem is not only based on beauty it is based on a lot of other things,have you ever have problems with your self esteem?i guess not because then you would know that you reach a point where you dont even like to look in the mirror no more,you dont like your own personality nomore,if you are so smart what signs are these,is it not signs that you are getting to dislike yourself,and in your opinion i should tell people that they are not supose to look at the problem,which as become theirselves and at least try to love that problem?once again i proved you wrong i have seen it so i knows itok


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alright, time for some explaining, evidently you took that wrong.

Believing in yourself [self-esteem] and Loving yourself [being self-centered] are two different things.

I happen to have experience in this issue as well. Let''s see where to begin...

well girl i been there i know what it is to feel ugly,to feel like i have to try and be like that other person then maybe someone will like me

alright, I too have been there and felt ugly, or felt like I had to measure up to standards..unfortunately for you, you are relating to a different subject. That "feeling" isn''t a self-esteem issue, that happens to be a common sense problem. You see, if you think that you must add up to someone''s standards, or that you are ugly, it is a phsycological thing. It is not a self-esteem thing. A self-esteem issue would have to do with confidence. I suppose you could relate both of them together in the matter of that you need confidence to realize that you are beautiful and that you don''t have to please everyone, but it''s not all dedicated to self-esteem.

how could you not love yourself first,how can someone tell me they love me, and cannot love theirself

well, you see, it is not always hypocriticism to say that you love someone but you cannot love yourself. It is in fact possible. There is a difference with Self-esteem, and Loving yourself to the point of obsession. That difference is that one is to help with encouragement, or to believe in yourself, and the other is basically just love yourself and think that the world is your servant.

how can i love someone and can''t love myself

You wanted me to answer this so I will...

I love my friends, but I don''t love myself. If I loved myself, I would think of only Myself and not of my friends. Causing myself to lose the friends that I used to love just to please myself. If that didn''t make sense then I''ll dumbify it later. My point is, it is not always about me. It is not always about you. Anything and everything that we ever do is affecting and will affect others.


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sweety my mom told me dont matter what always love yourself and i should quote i do not love myself all the time only most of the time,so even when you feel ashamed or rotten dont ever stop loving yourself ok


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