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Dear Dish-It: My BF Was Looking At My BFF

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Dear Dish-It,

My boyfriend kept looking at my best friend. What do I do to him? Do I talk to him? What to do.

msaaron78


Dear m78,

You should talk to your boyfriend about what you saw and how it makes you feel. But make sure when you are ready to say something to him that you are not angry and that you stay calm. He may deny that he ever looked at your best friend - listen to what he has to say and give him a chance to explain himself, no matter what his story is. Then, decide whether you believe him or not, whether you forgive him or not and whether you can trust him again or not. If you answer no to any of these questions, it's probably time to move on and find a new boyfriend who will treat you better.


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whatdaheck

whatdaheck wrote:

seems legit
commented: Sun May 19, 2013

-ZeroHero-

-ZeroHero- wrote:

close his eyes, woman.
commented: Sun May 19, 2013

Xx Jay.Loves.U xX
I had the opposite gender. My ex gf was looking at my best friend most of the time. I told her to stop. She wouldn't, so I dumped her.
commented: Sun Dec 09, 2012

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