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Dear Dish-It: My BF Was Looking At My BFF

Dear Dish-It,

My boyfriend kept looking at my best friend. What do I do to him? Do I talk to him? What to do.

msaaron78


Dear m78,

You should talk to your boyfriend about what you saw and how it makes you feel. But make sure when you are ready to say something to him that you are not angry and that you stay calm. He may deny that he ever looked at your best friend - listen to what he has to say and give him a chance to explain himself, no matter what his story is. Then, decide whether you believe him or not, whether you forgive him or not and whether you can trust him again or not. If you answer no to any of these questions, it's probably time to move on and find a new boyfriend who will treat you better.


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-Gwen9-- posted in Friends:
"jordand08" wrote:Thank you.You're welcome. :)
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donteatcarrots
talk to the person you're closest too. yes, you said you don't get close with people, but there's probably one person who you speak to more often than others- talk to that person.
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donteatcarrots
donteatcarrots posted in Friends:
Don't worry too much- it's only your first relationship- but I'd sit down with him at one point, and discuss what makes you uncomfortable, eg; if you know what I mean...
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donteatcarrots posted in Friends:
Probably sound a little stereotypical, but the majority of boys don't really act like that... Ask him :p
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kittenkid
First: WHATEVER YOU DO, DON'T KILL YOUSELF! When you get past this you'll be glad. Well, this is just my opinion, but I think you should first find someone, anyone, even if you don't trust them, if there're your parents talk to them about it. I bet a bunch of people have already told you this but there're right. Before you walk up to them, write down what you're going to say and then think of a few questions they might ask and write down the answers to them. Remember to tell them that it might take you a minute to think of an answer. Before you answer, think of the exact words you will say  before you say anything, and think in your mind about it. Think about wether it is a lie or not before you say it. If it gets out of you mouth before you realize it is a lie, don't be afraid to say so and just say the truth. Also, just try to find something you like to do that will take your mind off everything. If you really can't think of anything, try just practicing saying your feelings to yourself, or a pillow or something.  Hope this helps!
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